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People Suck!....

sweetbossom83sweetbossom83
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Why, why why why why whyyyyyyyy... Would you ask someone if the were pregnant if you were not ABSOLUTLY sure!!!!!! or at all... First at the gas station the clerk makes small talk with me and asks me when I am due... sigh, "I am NOT due anymore but thanks for reminding me that I feel like a failure and miss my little girl"..... then the lady at the cafeteria gives me that look like.. " ohhh you are expecting, how wonderful" (ready to let the tears roll) then to top off my day a co-worker, who does not know yet I lost the baby, actually pats my belly and says "awww hows the baby"... I hate my life Sad

I never understood why people ask women if the are pregnant and when they are due... why set yourself up for that??

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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member

    Sweetboobs!

    and WTF is with the insentiive people? I would have told the woman if she values her hand, to remove pronto or else you'd beat her with it.

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  • LemonLime10LemonLime10
    Ugh! That's terrible! I'm so sorry you have to deal with it!
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  • sweetbossom83sweetbossom83
    imageShellShockedMama:

    Sweetboobs!

    and WTF is with the insentiive people? I would have told the woman if she values her hand, to remove pronto or else you'd beat her with it.

    Thank you... I seriously thought about hurting her but I was to shocked to do anything.. I think I stood there in silence (that long uncomfortable silence)while I gathered myself then made her feel bad for doing such a thing...

    I never ask people if they are pregnant, I find it rude and possibly cruel you know...

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  • sweetbossom83sweetbossom83
    imageShellShockedMama:

    Sweetboobs!

    and WTF is with the insentiive people? I would have told the woman if she values her hand, to remove pronto or else you'd beat her with it.

    I love my nickname, it made me smile thanks! Smile needed that

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  • sweetgirl425sweetgirl425 member
    I'm so sorry you had to deal with this! People do suck!! Because I was so early, not many people at work knew I was pregnant, and they keep asking when I'm going to get pregnant! It's really hard to not cry on the spot!
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  • sweetbossom83sweetbossom83

    imagesweetgirl425:
    I'm so sorry you had to deal with this! People do suck!! Because I was so early, not many people at work knew I was pregnant, and they keep asking when I'm going to get pregnant! It's really hard to not cry on the spot!

    oh man I am sorry. I have a friend who experienced the same as you.. really sucks.. I have thought about wearing a sign (or T-shirt Cool) that says "NO I am not pregnant!! so DON'T F$@#% ask!"

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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    imagesweetbossom83:
    imageShellShockedMama:

    Sweetboobs!

    and WTF is with the insentiive people? I would have told the woman if she values her hand, to remove pronto or else you'd beat her with it.

    I love my nickname, it made me smile thanks! Smile needed that

    Big Smile my job here is done, hehe.

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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    (((HUGS))) I'm sorry you had deal with that. People are so nosey.
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  • angw79angw79
    I would so like to throat punch your co worker and those other stupid people for you!
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  • sweetbossom83sweetbossom83

    imageangw79:
    I would so like to throat punch your co worker and those other stupid people for you!

    You rock.. thanks for the laughBig Smile

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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    OMG, sweetboobs, your coworker needs to learn some boundaries!! You are right, people do suck. What a crappy day for you :-(
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  • sweetbossom83sweetbossom83

    imageColindaP:
    OMG, sweetboobs, your coworker needs to learn some boundaries!! You are right, people do suck. What a crappy day for you :-(

    I know 3 in one day! almost to much... at least I have you guys that helps.

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  • klk2klbklk2klb member
    People are inconsiderate a$$holes.  I'm sorry they made you feel bad. 
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