::grr_argh::

heathergirl67

Any update on your brother's gf?  Has the bleeding stopped?  Do they plan on going to get her checked out by the doctor?

grr_aargh

Oh, thanks for asking.

I spoke with my bro last night.  He said from what he'd read in What to Expect, it was a miscarriage - she was passing clots and stuff. . . but she wasn't in a lot of pain.  A 12 week loss, though, I mean, that should be pretty darned painful, yes?  I don't know.

Anyhow, everyone's holding up well, I guess. . . but we won't have any definite news until Monday. 

mamaholic

grr_aargh:

He said from what he'd read in What to Expect, it was a miscarriage -

I hate that book. It is seriously the devil. It will make everything sound like a m/c and scare the living sh!t out of people. They definitely need to see a doctor and not rely on a book. Sending lots of T&P their way. 

ShellShockedMama

grr_aargh:

Oh, thanks for asking.

I spoke with my bro last night.  He said from what he'd read in What to Expect, it was a miscarriage - she was passing clots and stuff. . . but she wasn't in a lot of pain.  A 12 week loss, though, I mean, that should be pretty darned painful, yes?  I don't know.

I'm stunned that a doctor visit hasn't been done or an ER visit or something at 12 weeks, that's pretty far.

Well, I wish the best for them.

rjl07

I would think at 12 weeks it would be extremely painful for her.  I hope they are doing ok.  Let us know what happens on Monday.

grr_aargh

ShellShockedMama:

grr_aargh:

Oh, thanks for asking.

I spoke with my bro last night.  He said from what he'd read in What to Expect, it was a miscarriage - she was passing clots and stuff. . . but she wasn't in a lot of pain.  A 12 week loss, though, I mean, that should be pretty darned painful, yes?  I don't know.

I'm stunned that a doctor visit hasn't been done or an ER visit or something at 12 weeks, that's pretty far.

Well, I wish the best for them.

I'm stunned as well.  Stunned enough to be doubtful. 

ShellShockedMama

grr_aargh:

ShellShockedMama:

grr_aargh:

Oh, thanks for asking.

I spoke with my bro last night.  He said from what he'd read in What to Expect, it was a miscarriage - she was passing clots and stuff. . . but she wasn't in a lot of pain.  A 12 week loss, though, I mean, that should be pretty darned painful, yes?  I don't know.

I'm stunned that a doctor visit hasn't been done or an ER visit or something at 12 weeks, that's pretty far.

Well, I wish the best for them.

I'm stunned as well.  Stunned enough to be doubtful. 

Thank you for saying this.  I'm a whorey _bitch, so I figured I was just being mean but I too am doubtful. that'd be an awful thing to do and to lie about.

grr_aargh

If she did lie, I will strangle her.

There's not even a hint of a joke in my voice, friends.  This is not the kind of BS you lie about. 

heathergirl67

OMG why would she lie about that??  Is she just that much of an AW?  A way to get closer to you?  It would take a really disturbed individual to lie about that. I hope that's not the case.  I hope she really is bleeding but the baby is okay.  If it's true then they must not be too emotionally attached to this baby.  I know if my doc said he couldn't see me I would be at the ER.  That's not something you take a "It'll work itself out" approach to.