EDD today

sinisterkat01

I feel like I should be more upset.  I'm not really happy by any means, just kind of blah, but it feels wrong.  And DH didn't remember.  I don't think I am going to hold it against him.  I've brought up the date before, and he at least recognized it then.  It's just not something that is etched into memory, like it is to mine.

Anybody else's DH have trouble remembering these things?

Scout05

Big hugs for the day. I think guys just block this stuff out - mine remembered, but maybe only because I wouldn't shut up about it.

I hope you get through the day okay.

roxyttandme

Big hugs.... Mine was last weekend......

sydney0928

I'm sorry. Hope you can do something nice for yourself today.

ShellShockedMama

{{{{big hugs}}}}} to you.

 

jennsadye1979

((Big Hugs)) My thoughts go out to you today!

johannaknip

I am sure my husband will be the same way! Big hugs to you today.

sinisterkat01

Thanks ladies - I've got to get the dog out for a walk, and then get going this morning.  Check back with you all later, and hope you have a good day.

.rosenjoe

{{hugs}}  T&P for today.

I think just feeling kind of blah is ok.  You shouldn't feel guilty for feeling or not feeling any particular way.  Not being in hysterics doesn't = not missing your baby.

We're not there yet, but I bet my H will remember...but only because it's also our wedding anniversary.  I highly doubt he would remember it if it were another date.  Like you said, it's just different for them.

Tapsalteerie

(((Big big Hugs))) for you today.  There are no expectations on how we have to react to days like these.  Just take care of yourself.

Pixiestx

Lots of hugs to you.  I know that DH will not remember unless I tell him, but he has had 36 years to learn his mom's birthday and he hasn't so I know dates like that are just not going to stick no matter what.

historychick79

Sending hugs your way, even if you're doing okay; it's a milestone. And my DH forgot both times, even with this one was right on Thanksgiving day, they simply experience and remember this differently.

cintim

 

SavageCarmina

My DH remembers my edd, but only because it is also my birthday. 

It's not wrong to "just" be blah about the day.  It's ok to not be a complete wreck.  Your baby knows that s/he is loved.  Big hugs for you today!!

Strunella

Hope you're doing ok.  My EDD is coming up in January and I can't believe I'm not pg again.  ::sigh::   My DH had the wrong month for my m/c, so I doubt he remembers the EDD.  Men.

rjl07

Hope you can do something nice for yourself today.  I'm thinking of you.

erpetdoc

(((hugs)))) to you today.  I hope you have a fairly easy day at work, and then that you're able to do something nice for yourself.  It's okay to feel just "blah." Your baby still knows that h/she is loved and that you remember him/her.

 

LMichelleG

Uggg! I'm so sorry ... I don't think my DH remembers our first EDD either. It's next month. BIG HUGS to you today!