I am 35 weeks pregnant and I went in for my appt today and found out I am 3 1/2 centimeters dilated. I have been having low back pain and painful cramping, like menstrual cramps for the past week or so. The doc said she could feel her head as well. Major tightening in my stomach along with the cramps. Is this the beginning of the end? Or could I go on like this for another month? I just want to know what is normal. This is my first pregnancy.
Re: 35 weeks and 3 1/2 centimeters dilated~ A few questions
Did your doc not say anything? It's hard to say without knowing if you're having BH or "real" contractions.
Theoretically, you could walk around at 3+ centimeters for weeks.
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Ditto. Did you mention the cramping and low back pain to your doc? Those are signs of PTL.
Well I asked her and she said the same thing... You could have the baby at any time, or you could be like this for weeks. When I asked her what her opinion was, she just dodged the question like doctors do. Don't want to slip their opinion just in case they are wrong...
I'm a little anxious.
I'm still not clear. Did you tell her about the cramping/low back pain? Was she concerned you were contracting at all?
When in doubt, call your doc.
It could really go either way.
And my normal PSA to everyone, BH and real contractions can feel like the same thing.
If you are already contracting, then you could still progress. The rate of progression is unclear. If he sent you home without meds or pelvic/bed rest, then he probably thinks you're okay - even if you go into labor now. Definitely call if any of your symptoms get worse and really pay attention to your body.
Jingles is today really your scheduled c-section?! If so, good luck!