i voted no but on second thought, i might. we usually only invite family to bday parties anyway (at least until the girls get a little older) and our parties are pretty low key, so it wouldn't be a big deal and nobody would think anything of it. but i go all out on invites and holiday cards, so i might prefer to send them separate just so they each get plenty of attention;-0
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