Sex question/advice

OregonPachey · November 2009

Any advice is appreciated. DH and I did the deed on Saturday. While it was like trying to mount an elephant, I enjoyed it.

So what positions work well for you? Besides girl on top and from behind. We are going to need other ideas in the future. Please and thank you!

LittleMamaB · November 2009

Spooning works well for us this late in the game.

murfygirl · November 2009

Lay down on your left side and have DH lay on his left side as well. It sounds weird but DH and I love that position.

Greyfaery · November 2009

Are we not supposed to do it missionary?

vernab · November 2009

We actually still do it missionary a lot of the time. I just use a lot of pillows to keep my head up so I can breath. Spooning is really comfortable too.

OregonPachey · November 2009

Greyfaery:
Are we not supposed to do it missionary?

My big tummy + My husband's beer gut = No workie

karaokerampergirl · November 2009

We've found lying in an L shape to eachother, with our legs scissored works well. It's a slow lovemaking but feels great.

mrs_sisco · November 2009

vernab:
We actually still do it missionary a lot of the time. I just use a lot of pillows to keep my head up so I can breath. Spooning is really comfortable too.

Same here...

mommy1/2010 · November 2009

LittleMamaB:
Spooning works well for us this late in the game.

same here

Meli0604 · November 2009

murfygirl:
Lay down on your left side and have DH lay on his left side as well. It sounds weird but DH and I love that position.

This!

We sometimes use this position even before I was pregnant.

Also, depending on the height of our bed and your husband's height...try laying on the edge of the bed (your upper body on the bed with your lower body off the bed) then have your husband stand up and hold your legs while you have sex. (i hope that makes sense the way I'm describing it).

SweetSpikette · November 2009

I wish I had advice.
Instead, I have a very uninterested husband.
I don't even think I was showing the last time we had sex.

JessLingle · November 2009

Wah Wah...I wish we were having sex. DH won't even touch me. He's discouraged, which I understand, because I feel like a hippo.

sbollenbach · November 2009

Try scooting to the edge of the bed while he stands on the floor and holds your legs up. You can even put a small pillow under your back if you don't want to fully lie on your back. He likes that when we're not pregnant, but now that I'm the size of a small whale, it works really well.

Meli0604 · November 2009

sbollenbach:
Try scooting to the edge of the bed while he stands on the floor and holds your legs up. You can even put a small pillow under your back if you don't want to fully lie on your back. He likes that when we're not pregnant, but now that I'm the size of a small whale, it works really well.

You described that better than I did lol.

Luv-a-Bug · November 2009

Yeah... My DH thinks it's too weird.

fIowerchild · November 2009

We mostly do the side scissors.

finally2006 · November 2009

Dh is super attracted to my boobs/belly but getting worried about sex so I do a lot of strip teases for him- picture preg lady in high heels and and thong- while he masturbates.

When we do have sex, I am on top while he sits on the couch.

CharlaineS · November 2009

Meli0604:

murfygirl:
Lay down on your left side and have DH lay on his left side as well. It sounds weird but DH and I love that position.

This!

We sometimes use this position even before I was pregnant.

Also, depending on the height of our bed and your husband's height...try laying on the edge of the bed (your upper body on the bed with your lower body off the bed) then have your husband stand up and hold your legs while you have sex. (i hope that makes sense the way I'm describing it).

This! Yes

poison489 · November 2009

We tried this morning and I had quite a bit of trouble getting comfortable. Reverse cowgirl (back to dh) gave pleanty of room for belly. Most everything else was pretty uncomfortable and very frustrating.