Trying to Get Pregnant

DH isn't being very sympathetic...

I just learned about 3 more people I know being pregnant in the last 48 hours!  I just can't catch a break... its so depressing!Crying  I am just glad I found out via Facebook b/c I would have started bawling in front of them if it was in person.

 

Technically this cycle isn't over for me, but I have ZERO symptoms of anything except the b*tchy attitude that comes with PMS.   Part of the reason these announcements are so hard to handle is that we had SUCH good timing this month!  I even got the day off work at the last minute so we could sex it up on O day.  All the pieces were coming together this month, but now I have no hope... just waiting for AF to come and ruin my weekend...

 

Sorry for the pity party.  Thanks for listening though Smile

Lilypie Second Birthday tickersI
BFP 1/2/10- miscarriage @ 6 weeks
BFP 9/7/10- DS born 4/30/11 via emergent c-section @ 36 weeks
Diagnosed with Stage II Hodgkin's Lymphoma 7/2/11
8 rounds of chemo & 20 sessions of radiation- NED as of 9/26/11!!!
TTC #2 since 12/2012
BFP 2/26/13 EDD 11/6/13 ***Baby Joel is on his way***

Re: DH isn't being very sympathetic...

  • I'm sorry, I know it sucks but it's not going to get any easier. try to relax you're still early in the process.

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  • I hope this month turns around for you and the PMS symptoms become a hidden BFP!!! =)
  • Sorry you're having a rough go of it this month.  Just remember - a healthy couple has a 20% chance of getting pregnant each month.  As far as DH goes, it's harder for guys to understand.  They don't have that maternal instinct that kicks in.  As much as they may want it, the pull doesn't seem to be nearly as strong as it is for us.  Not to mention, we are the ones who chart, POAS, temp, etc., so we have things to obsess over, whereas they don't.
  • Thanks guys!  Sometimes (ok, most of the time) its just not the same talking to a guy, even if he is your DH.  I agree that they just don't have the same urgency that a lot of us women have when it comes to TTC. 
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickersI
    BFP 1/2/10- miscarriage @ 6 weeks
    BFP 9/7/10- DS born 4/30/11 via emergent c-section @ 36 weeks
    Diagnosed with Stage II Hodgkin's Lymphoma 7/2/11
    8 rounds of chemo & 20 sessions of radiation- NED as of 9/26/11!!!
    TTC #2 since 12/2012
    BFP 2/26/13 EDD 11/6/13 ***Baby Joel is on his way***
  • imagemrs. weber on 8/26/07!!:
    I hope this month turns around for you and the PMS symptoms become a hidden BFP!!! =)

    Ditto this!!

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