My SIL can be such a b!tch! (long vent)

Daisy525

So for the most part I like my SIL and by like I mean we get long but we're by no means are we close.  So here's my vent:

some info:She just had her baby girl almost 8months ago and has been doing jenny craig for prob. the last two months.

So on thanksgiving we're chatting with each other about clothes and I was venting to her that I hate shopping now b/c my clothes don't fit (my jeans won't go past my thighs) and everything I try on in the store doesn't fit either (too big or too small) and just how bummed I've been feeling lately about how I look. Well, she proceeceds to tell me that she is now only 4lbs away from her prepreg weight and only 8lbs away from her prepreg weight before her first baby!!! I'm like great who gives a fvck...not me! Who says this to a girl who just had a baby 7weeks ago and is telling you how bad she is feeling about herself?!!! I wanted to throw LOs bottle at her. I'm usually quick on my toes with a come back but I was so pissed that I just stared at her.  And then all I could come up with was that I had already lost 23lbs and that that 23 came off pretty soon after DS was born b/c I had such bad water retention! Seriously this girl lacks some sensitivity! Why my brother married her I still don't know!

Another really annoying thing she does is ask to borrow stuff all the time but yet when you ask to borrow something from her she'll either ignore the fact that you asked her or she'll say no or lie about it. Example: after she had her first baby I let her borrow all of my fat jeans b/c i didn't fit into them anymore. Well, the other day I asked her if she could lend them back to me as I am in need. She first ignores my email for weeks and then on thanksgiving brings it up and says that she can't let me borrow them (even though they are tech. mine) b/c she is still using them.  Then today my mom tells me that she asked for new jeans for christmas b/c the ones she has are to big like 3 sizes to big?! So what's the truth....is she using the jeans or is she realy that selfish?

God I really hate her sometimes!!!!

Sorry so long and for the fact that I just totally rambled and prob. made little sense; I'm just so mad right now!!!!

amandabrideoct2008

Is there any chance that she was trying to encourage you by saying she is almost back to her prepreg size so you probably will be too after a few months?? Just trying.

 As for the jeans....that's just ridiculous and my SIL has done the same thing to me when I asked for something back that I had loaned to her...very annoying.

Tanner'sMommy

Tell her to give your jeans back.  They are yours.  WTF?