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TTC After a Loss
Scout05
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So the phone call went like this...
Scout05
member
Me: Happy Birthday BFF!
BFF: Thanks. So how ARE you? :::Grave Concern in Tone:::
Me: Oh, I'm doing just fine. So any great plans for tonight?
BFF: Oh, nothing much, just dinner. How was the holiday? Really awful, huh?
Me: Ummm, no. It was fine. Lots of food. Overate. Where are you eating dinner?
BFF: I thought about you all day, about how you should have had a baby and you don't. You DON'T. Just so wrong.
Me: Yeah. Sucks balls. But I don't really want to talk about it right now. Tell me about dinner, did your :::sucky, loser boyfriend::: get you anything special?
BFF: I mean, it's like when my friend's husband left her. It was just such a shock for me.
Me: WTF are you talking about?
BFF: When X's husband left her. It made me think of your "situation." :::whisper so as not to offend anyone in speaking of my "situation"::::
Me: How the fvck do these two things relate. One was a divorce between two people who had choice and the other is my children being taken from me. WTF are you talking about?
BFF: Have you guys talked about the fact that maybe you Just. Aren't. Meant. To. Have. A .Baby? Adoption is a really worthy thing.
Me: I take it back. Have a really crappy Birthday, and I hope you choke at dinner. ::Click:::
I am officially in hate with everyone I was friends with before my loss.
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Re: So the phone call went like this...
Omgosh I'm so sorry. I'm shocked she's so clueless, even after you requesting her to drop it.
Yep. Aparently all of my friends are assholes. I don't know how I never knew this.
I'm sorry she's so clueless
from me to her:
Hee hee, awesome!
Aww, we're your friends. We're not assholes, at least not most of the time.
I can really only think of one thing to say.
O.M.G.
WTF is up with that? I can't believe she said that to you!
Wow... it seems that she's not only an a$$hole, but also very self-centered. Please do focus on my (your) hurt, pain, and losses when I've just told you I don't want to talk about it. Ugh.
Sorry that you had to go through that. We'll be your non-a$$hole friends.
i totally agree with this--its a sad way to realize the people who truly care and the people who are clueless or just don't care.
((hugs))
I agree with this. Sadly most of my friends turned out to be assholes too. I'm really sorry, it hurts when the people you thought you could depend on in a major time of need turn out to be douches.