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Found out at almost 14 weeks

stellahavstellahav
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

I had just entered 2nd tri when I started experiencing cramping and spotting.  I went to the doc and found out baby was only measuring 10w5d.  Of course we had already told everyone, which just makes it worse.

 Dr scheduled me for a D&C the Wed before Thanksgiving.  Tuesday night I had a natural miscarriage.  I tried to be tough and wait it out, but the bleeding was too much and I ended up in the ER.  When I got to the ER I explained what was going on.  The triage nurse, in her questioning, asked if I was pregnant.  I realize she's just used to the routine, but she didn't even flinch at my "Not anymore!' response.  Anyway, my body didn't take care of it 100% so I had to have the D&C anyway.  

Honestly, I think the extreme pain I experienced has helped me get through this emotionally.  This hasn't been the best week of my life, and it's really hard to find the silver lining, but reading everybody's posts over the past few days has really helped me.  So thanks even though I haven't talked to anybody on here, and thoughts and prayers to everybody. 

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Re: Found out at almost 14 weeks

  • goillini823goillini823 member
    Really sorry for your loss. I just came to this board on Tuesday, and it's been a great help to me.
    Andrea 7/9/08, Joaquin 4/18/11, boy coming 12/18/13 Forever missed: Gabriel 11/24/09 at 20 weeks
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  • firefightersgalfirefightersgal member

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I hate when new people join, because it means they went through the same terrible thing the rest of us did.  You'll find a big support here. 

    Your story sounds a lot like mine.  Check out my blog if you are interested in reading about it.

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  • Temp950106187509203Temp950106187509203 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  {{hugs}}  I am glad the board has been a help to you.  It is so comforting to know that, whatever I'm feeling, someone else has gone through it too and there are always people here to vent to who, unfortunately, understand completely.  You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • shall923shall923 member
    Sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort here.
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  • Court1Court1
    I'm so sorry for your loss, but hope that you find some comfort here.  I am also new here.  We found out and had our D&C on Wednesday.  We were supposed to be going for our "big ultrasound", and instead were told the baby had passed.  Lean on your friends and family a lot & be good to yourself.  We all know it isn't easy.
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • MaryYVRMaryYVR member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I was at 13 weeks and totally understand how you feel.  Sending you ((HUGS))
    mmc @ 14 weeks - November 2009. Missed every day. Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 15DPO:461 17DPO (47hrs later):1380
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  • sunshinenvasunshinenva

    I too was 14 weeks when I went in for a "routine exam" and discovered our baby had passed.  I had had to have two D&C for this m/c which I have learned from this support group is not normal. 

    When you talked about going into the ER I totally felt for you as I experienced the same.  During registration for my 1st D&C the nurse asked if there was any chance I was pregnant.  I instantly cried and turned to my husband to speak for me.  The nurse was not sympathetic at all.

    I am sorry for your loss.  We are all here for you.

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  • SonadoraSonadora member
    I'm very sorry for your loss.
    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

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  • Genie0120Genie0120
    I am so sorry for your loss.  This board has been of comfort for me and hope it can be the same for you.  ((((hugs))))
    Mrs. Georgean 5.13.06 Holy 2nd Surprise BFP - Expecting our 2nd little one on Feb 9th 2013 After 3 years of unexplained infertilty, trying, hoping, and lots of peeing on myself.....Clomid Ovidrel IUI on 7/27/09 Best RE ever = BFP on 8/11/09 9/23 Missed m/c at 10.5 weeks. Very thankful for the time we had together. One lonely follie Clomid Ovidrel jacked up IUI on 12/31/09 (thanks to the nurse who wrote down the wrong protocol ) = 1/14/10 BFN - go figure. 150mg Clomid Ovidrel IUI on 2/12 - beta 2/26 = BFN Again..... Last IUI before a nice break...Cmon Luck of the Irish! Trigger 3/15, IUI 3/17... BFN and taking a little break before Follistim
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  • sunsetlovesunsetlove member
    so sorry for your loss..((HUGS)))
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.
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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member
    I am very sorry for your loss.  {{hugs}}
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