Babies on the Brain

I hate to keep being Debbie Downer but...

I'm so worried that if/when I find out I'm pregnant again, no one will want to be excited because I've already had two m/c's.  I'm afraid everyone will be so on pins and needles that it won't the the exciting time it's suppose to be.  I think this is one more reason for why DH and I won't tell ANYONE until after I have an u/s to confirm everything is OK.  I didn't make it to that point with either of my last two pregnancies.  It might be best to have that confirmation the next time around before telling even our parents.
Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker LFWisBack Our Guardian Angels: 11.06 * 6.09 * 12.11

Re: I hate to keep being Debbie Downer but...

  • I can definitely relate. Our parents actually told us not to get our hopes up this time around until we got past the NT scan. But as we got further along they got more and more excited - it wasn't the huge burst when you tell them but now they are all super excited.
  • Loading the player...
  • I was excited for my friend with each pregnancy, despite the miscarriages she kept having. With that said, she felt the way you do and with this pregnancy she didn't tell anyone (except her mom and me) until she was 16 weeks along.

    People will be excited for you, so don't worry about that, please! 

This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"