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gwennythepooh
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Missed m/c at 17 weeks, partial molar pregnancy d&c 11/30/09
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There doesn't really seem to be any appropriate introduction for this. My name is Gwen and this was our first pregnancy. I went in for my 16 week appointment Wednesday afternoon, thinking it would be quick and we'd be traveling for the holiday. While there, the doctor was unable to locate the heartbeat on the doppler. He said he wanted to send me for an ultrasound, as the placenta could be making it hard to find the heartbeat. I didn't think anything of this and was excited to see my baby on the u/s. I got to the u/s place and waited for awhile, watching a family celebrate finding out the gender of their baby. I was called back and laughing/chatting with the u/s tech. My world was shattered minutes later. There was no heartbeat and they said the baby had stopped developing in the 9th week. I just don't understand. I heard the heartbeat (a very strong one) at my 12 week appointment. I thought we were out of the woods and was completely shocked. My husband is being a huge support right now, but I just don't know what to think or feel. I have to have a d&c on Monday and I'm scared. It's just so much to take in at once.
Missed m/c at 17 weeks, partial molar pregnancy d&c 11/30/09
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Another thing they didn't tell me at the scan. My baby measured 10 wks, which means they died somewhere around 14 weeks. When the baby passes, they start to shrink at the same rate they were previously growing, meaning your LO probably passed in your 12th week.
so sorry for your loss {{{HUGS}}}. this is a great place for support and so it TTCAL when you move to TTC again.
The d&c shouldn't be too bad physically but of course emotionally is another story. I hope your DH is able to stay home with you for a few days, it was a big help to me having my DH home with for awhile. It's hard to be alone.
Missed m/c 11.09 | Missed m/c 3.10 | We miss you & love you so.
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Missed m/c at 17 weeks, partial molar pregnancy d&c 11/30/09
Gwen, Sorry for you loss. The women here are great and I have found them to be a wonderful support.
Even though I was only 4 wks along with last m/c I had a suction d/c and physically I felt fine after a couple days. They gave me a large amount of sedatives and I slept during the whole procedure. I did wake up crying (just an fyi) but the recovery nurse was great. Glad to hear your DH is supportive, too. Let us know if you need anything!
oh gwen, I am so sorry. There are no words and I have been thinking of you since seeing your fb update on thanksgiving. This board has been of such comfort to me, I hope it can be the same for you.
I cant imagine the pain you are going through, but I understand where you are. We also lost our first pregnancy and had to have a d&c, so if you have any questions, I am here.
You are in my thoughts and prayers Gwen, I am so sorry for your loss. We are here for you if you need anything at all.