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I'm out of the game for the next few months

shaysmom05shaysmom05 member
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I broke down and tested. BFN. I refuse to let it get me down. I promised DH I wouldn't get depressed, even though secretly I know he beats himself up for it for some reason.

So in light of this news, here are some things that I will do, even though I wish I couldn't:

1. Clean my house with strong cleaning products.

2. Enjoy jumping on a trampoline

3. Get my butt in gear about losing some weight

4. Enjoy a nice shot of Tequila when my g/f offers it

I'm sure there's more, but I'm still having a hard time finding what those things are. I'll just go get me a BBT and start charting and getting ready for when DH gets home... and try not to cry in the process of waiting...

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Re: I'm out of the game for the next few months

  • CAB'smommyCAB'smommy
    When I miscarried, I told DH that the only good thing was that I could have a glass of wine.  I'd rather be pg and not have it though.  
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  • kshields104kshields104

    imageCAB'smommy:
    When I miscarried, I told DH that the only good thing was that I could have a glass of wine.  I'd rather be pg and not have it though.  

     

    I agree with you 100%.

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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    imageshaysmom05:

    I broke down and tested. BFN. I refuse to let it get me down. I promised DH I wouldn't get depressed, even though secretly I know he beats himself up for it for some reason.

    So in light of this news, here are some things that I will do, even though I wish I couldn't:

    1. Clean my house with strong cleaning products.

    2. Enjoy jumping on a trampoline

    3. Get my butt in gear about losing some weight

    4. Enjoy a nice shot of Tequila when my g/f offers it

    I'm sure there's more, but I'm still having a hard time finding what those things are. I'll just go get me a BBT and start charting and getting ready for when DH gets home... and try not to cry in the process of waiting...

    Sorry to hear of your BFN.  It sounds to me like you have a great plan in place to distract you and keep you sane.  And if it doesn't work, there's the tequila. 

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  • picaronapicarona

    oh no, I'm so sorry.  Your DH is deployed?  That must make the BFN 10x more difficult to face.

    I think you should move #4 to the front of the line, which will make numbers 1-3 even more enjoyable.

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