Not a shining moment...

historychick79

Well, it was T-day with DH's relatives; also struggling with the fact that it is the EDD for loss #2. Dh's cousin had a baby yesterday, and one of the aunts pulled me aside so I could pull up my Facebook to look at the baby pics, great. Then, we're sitting at the table saying grace when a cousin interrupts 'Can I add something, X is pregnant' Umm, lovely. Then everyone starts talking about the baby born yesterday. and I just lost it and left table. Spent probably about 15mins bawling in bathroom, DH trying to calm me down. Beyond being miserable, I'm embarrassed. Ended up cleaning up makeup and having some dinner. But not a good night; not even in mood for dessert and coffee, and still weepy now that we're home. And DH's miserable cause he can't really do any. Guess I at least saved some calories and can have some retail therapy tomorrow. But bleh. Just bleh.

heathergirl67

I'm so sorry sweetie.  It's just not fair.

swanck

Oh.  That so sucks. 

I'm sorry.

Enjoy the rest of your night as much as you can with DH.

::::hugs::::

mamaholic

I'm so sorry. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm just telling myself. The day is almost over... Not that it helps.

babygirlpriest

I'm so so sorry hun! Hope you can spend tomorrow away from everyone and pampering you - you deserve it.

and PS - you DH's family is oblivious!

Sonadora

That sounds miserable, I'm so sorry.

 

I cried twice at the dinner table. But it's no one's fault...I hadn't told my family other than my mom and dad...two people asked if I had any kids/planned on it....etc

Pixie21

Awww i'm sorry Hope you feel better soon.

mirlynn324

I'm sorry hun...that sucks. They could have been a little more sensitive to your feelings!

Fierylocks

Oh, I'm sorry hun.  Today would have been a tough day no matter what.  I'm sorry it was compounded by all the other baby news.  I'll bet DH's family will be a lot more sensitive now. 

I hope the retail therapy tomorrow helps you feel better.   

nobodygirl1983

So sorry you had such a crappy dinner. People can be so insensitive. Try to enjoy the evening with your DH and shop your butt off tomorrow!

MrsNJTiger

Talk about a triple whammy.  I am so sorry.  You are way stronger than I would have been...I wouldn't have gone and I would have gone off on someone who told me to look up the FB pics.  I am proud of you...I think you did good.  Now you are home...I would have a good cry and go to bed. 

happyhoopla

I'm so sorry, hun. Sometimes it all just hits us....nothing better to do than just embrace the hurt.