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ToshaGirlToshaGirl member
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I had better news. But BFN. We had our hopes up this cycle. But what can you do. I am not speaking to my ute at present.

So. Onwards, onwards to another IUI in December.

I "might" test again in the AM with FMU but I have some cramping and stuff and I can probably save my $20 :)

Thanks for the good wishes girls, you all rock. (Espicially when you dance on the tables at the virtual bar).

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  • IrishsapphireIrishsapphire member
    I am so sorry.  I was really hoping that you would have better news.  Take care of yourself.  I wish this was easier for all of us who are over 35. 
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  • StrunellaStrunella member
    Oh, no....I'm sorry Cathy!  That is so disappointing...I was really hoping this was going to be it.  Hang in there...sending hugs!
     
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  • baze2baze2

    :::covering my ears/eyes (cuz I am reading )::::

    Say it isn't so...I am not taking these results..I want you to test in the am..I soo thought it would be a different result ...but what about FMU...I am hoping. I am desperate for the results I wanted for you..

    I am never giving up hope..ONWARD...

    Cathy I am sending you hugs and prayers, and thoughts and serenity and support and positive vibes, and hope, and love, and kisses!!

    I am not giving up hope!! ONWARD

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  • iluvtomiluvtom member
    I am sorry, maybe it was just too soon.
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  • CharBartCharBart

    Aww Cat! I'm sorry sweetness! This is a total bummer! 

    I will shake my groove thing on the bar for you anyday!

    Big hugs and kisses!

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  • shyntrueshyntrue

    I'm sorry... ugh.  $20 for a pregnancy test??? Yipes!

    {{{{Hugs}}}} 

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  • leslieb923leslieb923
    Sorry to hear this.   Big hug to you!
    Married 5/12/07 Took 3 IUIs and 2 IVFs for our sweet boy He was worth the wait! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • Babsie7Babsie7 member

    I'm so sorry. I was really hoping this would be it. {{big hugs}}


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  • QE2QE2 member
    I'm sorry Cat. I hope FMU brings you some different result. Hugs to you.
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  • fauxshelleyfauxshelley member

    Cathy I am so sorry.  Hang in there - we are all rooting for you!

      ((hugs))  Left HugRight Hug

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  • NowDNAtooNowDNAtoo
    Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this!  Best of luck with your next IUI!
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  • Nancy6306Nancy6306 member
    Frustrating, isn't it? I was hoping this was my month, too. AF was actually one day late and I was so excited AND like you, I wanted to save the money and not have to go out and by a pregnancy test until I was really late. I guess now I don't have to since AF showed up this morning.?
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  • suzshacksuzshack

    Sorry for the BFN, and I understand being mad at the ute.  

    Here's hoping that December's IUI will be the one!   

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  • rsrn02rsrn02

    oh cat i'm so sorry i'll be praying for you

    and sending virtual hugs.

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  • JamieFLJamieFL

    I'm sorry, Cathy, that it wasn't better news.  As always, your positive thoughts will follow you until your December IUI.  A promising game plan!

    As for the $20 HPT, how about buying plenty from Ebay?  I must confess to getting good deals on FRER's and am hoarding them for one day.

    Onward, as you so aptly coined this term!

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  • golfing_girl73golfing_girl73 member
    So sorry to hear this...Nobody here will speak to your ute either!  That will teach a lesson in time for December IUI.
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  • LisaMarie95LisaMarie95
    I am so sorry for your news.  May December be a better month!  {{{{hugs}}}}
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  • leffe1leffe1
    I am sorry Cathy. I hope December brings you your BFP!!
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  • DinaLINYDinaLINY

    you're my inspiration Cat! your attitude is amazing. ONWARDS! love it

    here's to a BFP next month Drinks

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  • smb1974smb1974

    I am so sorry Cathy!  I know I have not been posting here long, but I have been following your story and reading your blog since I started lurking here several months ago...I was really hoping this was going to be the one for you..

    Your positive attitude is an inspiration.  Thinking of you and sending hugs your way!

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  • sel*stellasel*stella

    I'm sorry. I understand the feeling. I got another big white space next to the 'test' line a few days ago too. (and I never POAS, but was especially hopeful this month)

    Maybe December will be the one for you. Onwards!!!!!!!!!

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  • NantucketSunsetNantucketSunset member

    I'm so sorry to hear Cathy. Wishing you a successful next IUI (or a miracle tomorrow!)

     


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  • boymamacoboymamaco member
    So sorry to hear that! Hang in there. Take care of you! xo
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  • panda246panda246

    Darn it...that just stinks.

    ???  $20 for a PG test...that's a lot of dough to POAS!

    Good luck next cycle.  I forget, are you on the typical protocol.  3 IUI's and then on to either injectibles or IVF?

    {{{  HUGS   }}}

    -Panda

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  • ToshaGirlToshaGirl member
    imagepanda246:

    Darn it...that just stinks.

    ???  $20 for a PG test...that's a lot of dough to POAS!

    Good luck next cycle.  I forget, are you on the typical protocol.  3 IUI's and then on to either injectibles or IVF?

    {{{  HUGS   }}}

    -Panda

    lol, yes $20 for a digital. Everything is more expensive up here.

    2 more IUI with just clomid, 1 with injectibles, then we'll look at IVF.

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  • sadie sadiesadie sadie

    I'm sorry. Left Hug ONWARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • MDBeachbrideMDBeachbride member
    That bites.  Sorry!  Hope you joined the girls in the virtual bar and got your drink on. 
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  • FrannySFrannyS
    So sorry to be reading this but thanks for sharing your experience with your friends here!  Here's to success for the December IUI! Good luck!
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  • LizzyB11LizzyB11
    I'm sorry! Hopefully December will bring you the best Christmas present ever.
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  • mimi525mimi525
    So very sorry. All the best of luck in December. I hope its the one.
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  • ccbananaccbanana member
    Cath - xoxo
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  • kb75kb75
    I'm super late to this... So sorry, Cat. I hope December is your lucky month.
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