Just gloating- flame me if you want!

mabelanna

Had a serious boyfriend in HS- just knew we would grow up, get married, have lots of kids, etc.  Well, it didnt work out that way and we went our separate ways.  I always wondered  what ever happened to him and how his life turned out.  Last week, I was looking at a friends page on FB and what do you know, there he was!  I requested him as a friend just to see what he was up to, where he was, etc. And to see pics of course- he didnt have a profile pic up, so that made the curiousity even worse.  Long story kinda short, he accepted me today and WHOA!!  I laughed so hard- he was not the man I remembered!  I know I sound totally b!tchy, but he was always so condesending on the way I looked and trying to make me feel insecure, and there he was about 100 lbs heavier (and no ladies, it cant be attributed to baby weight ) all messy and balding!  HA!  

I guess at the end of the day, it was closure for me and gave me the chance to realize I wasnt missing out on anything and that life leads you down certain roads that maybe you dont understand at the time, but can appreciate later. 

Yes, all of this from a pic of a fat ex-boyfriend. Superficial- yes.  But, I'm ok with that.  Flames can start now...

 

gracendantho26

No flames here...I dodged a bullet or two myself!

kellnbri

no flames from me....I did the same with an ex.  Unfortunately he is not fat or balding and looks just as good as I remember.