2 snappies to fit a 30 pound kid?
crochet bonnet hats?
If snappies are onesies, I think the 24-month size at Carters should work.
The other things - try Etsy?
I got a tutu at Carter's for Eve.. Its a little long.. but its still cute. Otherwise.. Etsy for the tutu and the hat..
The snappi.. I dunno.. any cloth diaper stores locally? I thought they were one size fits all.
try jilliansdrawers for the snappis. they only come in 2 sizes and i don't think there is that much of a difference in the sizes.
i have seen tutus at tj maxx and marshalls. i bought one for my neice at gymboree or the childrens place. I get them confused.