Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

Hmm...I have a big problem with this....

So I've been trying to catch up on reading my magazines and in the Oct 2009 Parents magazine I find this in the "Solutions - It Worked for Me" section:

 "To entice my 4-year-old to drink more water, I serve it in a cheap plastic wineglass, and decorate the rim with a slice of fruit."

I don't have a problem with drinking (I choose not to).  But I really don't think drinking should be glorified for kids.  Maybe I'm just sensitive to it, but I'd rather find a different kind of "fun" cup if DS needs to be encouraged to drink more.  

Just rubbed me the wrong way.... 

Re: Hmm...I have a big problem with this....

  • I liked the tip.  Our boys love their fun cups.  We don't have any "wine glass" types but they definitely love the funky straws and oddly shaped glasses.

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  • I agree with you. I saw that and it rubbed me the wrong way as well.  I am all about a fun cup to get a kid to drink water, but not one that is associated with alcholic beverages. 
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  • Eh, I think you're being too sensitive. Who's to say the kid would even understand that that's supposed to look like alcohol. They'd probably just think it's "fancy" and "grown-up looking".
  • I agree with you.  Not cool.
  • I think it depends on whether or not the child has a context for it. 

    If he sees mommy drink wine out of a wine glass and she says, "oh, it's a special grown-up drink." and then the child gets his own drink in the same glass, he's going to make the connection between the forbidden grown-up drink and the "pretend" grown-up drink he's having. 

    But, if the parents don't drink wine and the child is not around drinkers very often, then it's just a drink in a fancy glass with a piece of fruit.

  • hmm I don't know.. I have some fun "wine" glasses that are plastic the stem part has a big plastic bee, butterfly & ladybug. I had 2 of each. DD saw them when I was going through a box of stuff and wanted to use it. I don't think it's glorifying or encouraging anything, it's a cup that I put juice in. She doesn't know what a wine glass is, she just thinks it's "cool"
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    I think it depends on whether or not the child has a context for it. 

    If he sees mommy drink wine out of a wine glass and she says, "oh, it's a special grown-up drink." and then the child gets his own drink in the same glass, he's going to make the connection between the forbidden grown-up drink and the "pretend" grown-up drink he's having. 

    But, if the parents don't drink wine and the child is not around drinkers very often, then it's just a drink in a fancy glass with a piece of fruit.

    I agree with this, exactly.

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