I don't make plans for the future of my family based on events in other people's lives. It makes no sense to me to put TTC on hold because of a wedding. TTC and if you wind up pg at the time of your friends wedding, deal with it then.
I know I'm in the minority, but I held off on TTC because I didn't want to be pregnant for my sister's wedding this past summer. And this is coming from someone who had T-TTC the first time!
If you don't mind the possibility of missing her wedding, then I don't see any reason for you to wait. But if it's important for you to be there, I don't see the big deal in taking a month or two off from TTC.
Emily 11.29.2007 | Kate 4.3.2010 | James 8.22.2013
Re: Opinions pls..re TTC
Why would you put your life on hold for a one day event?
I answered yes
DD and I are both in a wedding next July. We are currently TTC'ing, and if I end up pregnant now I will be due shortly after the wedding.
I know I'm in the minority, but I held off on TTC because I didn't want to be pregnant for my sister's wedding this past summer. And this is coming from someone who had T-TTC the first time!
If you don't mind the possibility of missing her wedding, then I don't see any reason for you to wait. But if it's important for you to be there, I don't see the big deal in taking a month or two off from TTC.