blah blah measuring behind blah blah.

someflower6

i went in for an u/s today and am measuring behind. the doctor was concerned because they could only see a gestational sac and it looked like something was in my right tube. he sent me to get a more high tech u/s done, and that showed a gestational and yoke sac in my ute and nothing in my tube. so my dr thinks an ectopic is ruled out, but is still concerned at the slow progress of the pregnancy. he wants me to come in next monday to determine if the pregnancy is viable or not.

he was pretty pessimistic about the situation. he thought if it wasn't an ectopic, i'd have a spontaneous miscarriage sometime soon. or a missed mc that they could find on monday, and i could decide if i want to wait it out or get a d&c. or, oh yeah, it could POSSIBLY be a viable pregnancy. he kept saying "i know this is hard for you" and "i know this is not what you wanted to hear" and eyeing towards the box of tissues. i didn't cry, and honestly, i still haven't. a part of me feels guilty that i'm not more upset. the other part of me feels guilty that i'm not more hopeful. i just feel numb and don't know what to think.

so that's it for me right now. now i'm going to catch up on today's posts...

Scout05

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Don't feel guilty, there is still a good chance this might work out just fine. Praying for you.

MrsDCruz

But its still early!!! Maybe your Oed later than you thought????

I will keep you in my T&P's!!

roxyttandme

I am sooo soory, hun.....  I am sending you lots of positive thoughts and sticky dust.... T &P....

 (((hugs)))

Pixie21

I'm sorry....I hope they see something on Monday. Hope for the best, and I hope everything turns out fine

mlwinkle

That just plain sucks! Sorry you are in limbo.

MollyK0222

CruzMommyG:

But its still early!!! Maybe your Oed later than your thought????

I will keep you in my T&P's!!

This.  I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.  Hang in there!

sydney0928

Very sorry to hear that. You're still super early though, I would stay hopeful. Maybe your doc is just a douchebag. I hope the time between now and Monday goes by fast for you.

ladylaurali25

Oh hun, I pray there is still some hope for this pregnancy. I am sorry you are going through this!

MAtoMN

I am so sorry you have to go through this.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

?Jacqueline?

I am sorry your Dr was such an ass. It is still early and you did see the ges sac and the yolk sac.  I know it is hard especially when your Dr is being so pessimistic, but try and stay positive. I will keep you in my prayers.

megjr8

I'm sorry the dr. was such a pessimist. Keep your chin up! You're in my prayers!

ShellShockedMama

I'm sorry you got less than stellar information, but it's still SO early. I'll keep you in my prayers that everything will be alright.

Tapsalteerie

He sounds like an a$$.  Way to instill panic and cause stress for you which definitely isn't good if the pregnancy is viable.

I'm hoping and praying for you that he's just being a twit and that everything will be okay.

bebeblues

I'm so sorry that it wasn't the best news....but remember, it STILL has the possibility of being a viable pregnancy. Don't give up hope yet. ((hugs))

rjl07

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Glad to hear that at least it isn't ectopic. I hope you just O'd late and that everything looks great on Monday.

momagain2009

It's still early, you're in my thoughts and prayers.  I wish he was a little more optimistic!

mrsadamc 05

sydney0928:

Very sorry to hear that. You're still super early though, I would stay hopeful. Maybe your doc is just a douchebag. I hope the time between now and Monday goes by fast for you.

This! 

I will be thinking of you!

lax15bsu

Keeping you in my prayers and hoping the dr was just an ass for scaring you!

Kel&Jay

The limbo sucks, but I'm still holding out hope for you and your LO

mjz

I'm sorry you're going through this. Stay positive, though! I hope you get good news on Monday.

hbkises

It's still so early.  I will be praying hard for you!  ((lots of hugs)) and please dont' give up yet

swanck

I'm sorry that this appointment didn't bring the great news we are all praying for.  I can't imagine what your feeling.

Just know that we will have hope for you!

Hang in there girl.

Cow-girl

ambrandau2:

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Don't feel guilty, there is still a good chance this might work out just fine. Praying for you.

This!

mlmtgg

oh goodness, I am so sorry. I hope that when you go back everything is just as it should be - and this was just a scare.

big hugs.

PeetiePie

I'm so so sorry dear.  I pray this LO will make it.  (((hugs)))

heathergirl67

I dunno... from looking at your chart it seems to me that could have O'd later than FF says.  And even if that is when you O'd, then it definitely implanted late.  There are soooo many variables this early on.  You'll be in my thoughts and let us know how it's going on Monday!

KelzinBoston

I'm sorry you're going through this.  It is still early though, so there is hope!  DS measured behind at first, but caught up by 8 weeks or so!

You'll be in my thoughts, I hope everything turns out ok. 

candycane3t

I am praying that it is just too early and everything will work out on Monday, keep us updated

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roxyttandme:

I am sooo soory, hun.....  I am sending you lots of positive thoughts and sticky dust.... T &P....

 (((hugs)))

This.

OCIrishBruin

I'm so sorry.  Sounds like the doctor needs a lesson in social skills.  This limbo time is the worst.  My T&Ps are with you for great news in the next few days.

ping1080

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this. I hope everything turns our fine on Monday. We're all rooting for you!

And Ketch

*hugs* T&P to you - I am so so sorry you're dealing with this.

jrodsgal06

I'm sorry you don't really have any answers yet.....You are in my thoughts and prayers

hopingwaiting

Oh no, I am so sorry you are dealing with this!  You'll be in my thoughts.

Strunella

Hang in there!  Lots of T&P for you that everything turns out ok.

KelleyBean

I'll be thinking of you. ((hugs))

cintim

I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I'm praying that Monday will show that jerk off doctor of yours how wrong he is. ((hugs))

vkbaby09

heathergirl67:

I dunno... from looking at your chart it seems to me that could have O'd later than FF says.  And even if that is when you O'd, then it definitely implanted late.  There are soooo many variables this early on.  You'll be in my thoughts and let us know how it's going on Monday!

This.  I'm hoping for the best for you...