If you ask us how we got pregnant...

MrsARC1105

you should tell us why you are curious.

Can we agree on this rule? 

jacobandcrystal

Agreed.  But, she got the answers she wanted, right?  If we really want to know someone's intentions, we shouldn't supply the info until they've been revealed! ; )

pea-kay

sounds fair to me...

BitterOldHag

Nah.  I think we should stop answering altogether. Everyone gets pregnant the same way, when the fertilized egg implants.  What difference does it make if that happens with the help of modern technology, charting, too many drinks, divine intervention or a BC fail?

One person's pregnancy does not have any impact on anyone else's.

Quit asking.

Also, I wish we could but a notice at the top of this board that's sticky and says "All babies are natural."

abbzy85

BitterOldHag:

Also, I wish we could but a notice at the top of this board that's sticky and says "All babies are natural."

 

Seriously, I got pregnant at 20 and people always ask, "oh wow, twins! You did IVF??" What Dr. would do fertility treatments on someone that obviously could not have been trying to get preg that long?And btw to all those lurkers.. fertility treatments don't guarantee multiples so why assume?

It's really no one's business why anyone is expecting multiples. 

TripMomma

I have no problem sharing how with others who are STC. When I was put on Clomid I also wanted to know what the odds were and had other Q's too. It does get bothersome when it's strangers or people who are NOT STC that ask.

k&b51907

jacobandcrystal:

Agreed.  But, she got the answers she wanted, right?  If we really want to know someone's intentions, we shouldn't supply the info until they've been revealed! ; )

This.

mnj917

This is off -topic - but I LOVE your Halloween costumes!!!  I may have to steal you idea for next year! : )

amjra

Maybe she is trying for Multiples.  (dummy)

 See my VENT in a PP below.

efhoping2010

I totally agree, all babies are natural, end of story   I mean they are not robotic or artificial.  Silly things people say!

Temp159135562506975

the way i see it- if you don't like answering it - don't reply.

i don't mind- i don't care why they are asking... I'm an open book about my IF experience and using clomid/IUI.

I do think it's pretty dumb when someone going on clomid comes here and asks about our twins and clomid to figure out the risk... because, duh, everyone on this board is pg or has muultiples- and if we used clomid- then the risk would be 100% on this board, huh?  They should be asking on SAIF and they'll see that tons of women on there got pg with just one baby using clomid.

CrazeyJaneyR

It doesn't bother me, but I can see why it might be bothersome.