Adoption

I know its been a few days, but our bm loves us so far...

i talk to her thru texting just about everyday and she wants us to meet with her and her pastor already on saturday! we are really excited but being cautious.. she wants whoever is going to be the adoptive family to be around during the whole pregnancy, which we would love. it seems that so far she is really liking us and invited me to go to her u/s next thursday. which of course i didnt say no. again we are being very careful and guarding our hearts but at the same time we are loving her no matter what her choice and we just want to support her because this is not something to be taken lightly. who knows  maybe this is actually going to happen for us...
Lilypie Fifth Birthday tickers



TTC since 2005
missed miscarriage nov 2006- 4 failed clomid cycles-
3 failed femara iui cycles-
moving on to IVF oct 2011
ER nov. 7th
tansfered 2 blasts on 11/10
lots of +hpt!!
beta #1 on 11/21= 50.4
beta #2 on11/23= 90.8
another miscarriage 12/23
moving on to Round 2 of IVF with an auto immune dx
ER 4/23-retrieved 12 eggs
ET 4/28 3 transfered
Beta #1- 356
Beta #2- 870

Lilypie Premature Baby tickers

Re: I know its been a few days, but our bm loves us so far...

  • I hope it all works out for you.
  • Good luck! I will keep you in my prayers! If your BM has any questions you can pass her questions along to me! I am a BM and am here for support for you and your BM! 
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  • Thanks lv, i cant imagine what a bm goes through and i want to make sure i am giving her all the support she needs. its hard to see both sides, when you have waited for a baby so long and here might be one, but to realize that someone has to give that miracle up for you to have that family you have wanted.....i am just really glad that she and i can talk so openly
    Lilypie Fifth Birthday tickers



    TTC since 2005
    missed miscarriage nov 2006- 4 failed clomid cycles-
    3 failed femara iui cycles-
    moving on to IVF oct 2011
    ER nov. 7th
    tansfered 2 blasts on 11/10
    lots of +hpt!!
    beta #1 on 11/21= 50.4
    beta #2 on11/23= 90.8
    another miscarriage 12/23
    moving on to Round 2 of IVF with an auto immune dx
    ER 4/23-retrieved 12 eggs
    ET 4/28 3 transfered
    Beta #1- 356
    Beta #2- 870

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • I just wanted to wish you luck.  I know this is an exciting time for you, but you seem to understand exactly what the BM is going through and that's really nice of you.  I hope everything works out.
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