I would ask for testing at this point. With my second miscarriage, they did Recurrent Pregnancy Loss testing. I just felt that I got some answers at least.
If you do a D&C, are they going to be doing testing?
I know how you feel. I am 38 years old. I just wish this was easier. I really want a baby.
BFP on 07/18/08. Miscarriage 07/30/08. BFP 3/25/09. Confirmed second miscarriage, no heartbeat, no growth beyond 7 weeks, 5/19/09. TTC again, on baby aspirin, due to value of 23 on Anticardiolipin Antibodies. BFP 11/15/09. Brown spotting, Beta 3735 11/25/09, Beta 5602 11/28/09. Anticardiolipin Antibodies now negative, still on baby asprin. On 100 mg of Prometrium (progesterone) until 10 weeks. Good heartbeat at 1st appt. 12/16/09. Started taking fish oil. Perigestational hemorrhage and red bleeding 12/17/09. 2nd Ultrasound-8 weeks, still a heartbeat 12/17/09. Baby measured 9 weeks, still a heartbeat 12/23/09. Good NT Scan on 1/8/10, heartbeat 164. EDD 7/28/10. TEAM BLUE! Aidan Thomas born on May 26, 2010.
Baby #2, BFP 11/27/11, EDD 6/5/12. TEAM PINK! Noelle Elizabeth born 4/30/12.
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My heart is breaking for you, Char. This is so unfair and being AMA makes it so much worse. I wish there was something I could do to help, but please know that you are in my thoughts.
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Oh Char, I am with the rest of the ladies here in saying I am so sorry. Life is really cruel at times and know that we are all thinking of you and I am still holding out some hope for it to turn around for you. I hope you find comfort between now and then, as well as afterward, whatever the result is.
Take care of yourself & treat yourself to something extra yummy.
Char - I'm so sad for you. I'm crying as I type this message. Like all the ladies have said it is just not fair. I can't believe this happened to you. All I think thinking is this is just fvcking not right.
I'll say some prayers for you and D. I puffy heart you Char.You are such a wonderful woman. Please please please let me know if there is anything that I can do. I'm always here to listen and have a shoulder for you to lean on. ((((hugs))))
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. This was the first chance I had to get on here today and I was curious to see how your ultrasound went. I hope you get some answers...I just wish we didn't have to go through this pain and uncertainty.
Three beautiful girls!
DD#1 8-23-01
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DD#3 10-19-10
Re: u/s
I would ask for testing at this point. With my second miscarriage, they did Recurrent Pregnancy Loss testing. I just felt that I got some answers at least.
If you do a D&C, are they going to be doing testing?
I know how you feel. I am 38 years old. I just wish this was easier. I really want a baby.
My heart is breaking for you, Char. This is so unfair and being AMA makes it so much worse. I wish there was something I could do to help, but please know that you are in my thoughts.
Oh Char, I am with the rest of the ladies here in saying I am so sorry. Life is really cruel at times and know that we are all thinking of you and I am still holding out some hope for it to turn around for you. I hope you find comfort between now and then, as well as afterward, whatever the result is.
Take care of yourself & treat yourself to something extra yummy.
Char - I'm so sad for you. I'm crying as I type this message. Like all the ladies have said it is just not fair. I can't believe this happened to you. All I think thinking is this is just fvcking not right.
I'll say some prayers for you and D. I puffy heart you Char.You are such a wonderful woman. Please please please let me know if there is anything that I can do. I'm always here to listen and have a shoulder for you to lean on. ((((hugs))))
Oh no, Char! I am SO sorry
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Somehow I missed this post yesterday...
I am so, so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.