Can I vent just a little?

sadie sadie

So DH was a grumpy asshat all weekend.  I ask- why so grumpy? The reply from H - I'm not getting laid. WTF.  H had his SA this morning at 10:30am so ya no sex for you.  Poor baby.  H is on board with the whole RE thing.  But it seems like as long as it's me with the whoha lights and whoha cameras its okay.  I finally had it make his SA appointment because he just couldn't find the time or kept forgetting.  His appoinment was 2 hrs ago and I still haven't heard for him. 

Thanks for letting vent,

The hormonal 2ww girl

stacia1633

Girl, I feel your pain.  My Dh was the exact same way. 

baze2

My learning experience through all this: Before: I thought a man could "jerk off in a jar" on command.  I mean really thought no biggy look at some porn and boom it was done..after: Men have a harder time with the "jerk off in a jar" than the women do having lights, cameras, and probing..good thing the men don't have to do our part..

Hang in there..I am sure everything went fine.

joyfulnature

We are here for your venting, anytime!

I don't know why DHs are such pains when it comes to this stuff. But it seems to be a nearly universal phenomenon.

hollymichael

Sorry your DH is not being very cooperative. Having been on this board for a long time now, this seems to be normal when it comes to the SA.  I think they are really scared of (1) not being able to perform on command and/or (2) finding out something is wrong. They don't like to admit they are nervous so they get all grumpy instead.

JillAly

hollymichael:

Sorry your DH is not being very cooperative. Having been on this board for a long time now, this seems to be normal when it comes to the SA.  I think they are really scared of (1) not being able to perform on command and/or (2) finding out something is wrong. They don't like to admit they are nervous so they get all grumpy instead.

Yep- my words exactly!  Very normal.