So, when choosing our dear son's name, we followed our French family tradition (on my DH's side) but were careful to choose a French name that was easy to pronounce and couldn't be too chopped- Remy. ?
Now that we're having another, we're thinking about names to honor my side. If it's a girl, we'd like to name her after my mother and the city that our families are from...but this might be a killer to pronounce : Gitana Lyon....which sound like "Itana" (sort of rhymes with iguana and the G is silent) and the French city. ?Is this insanity?
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Re: Pronounce this...
um, so you are presuming everyone your daughter ever meets with default to the French pronounciation? That is a bit, er, shortsighted.
I think the name is beautiful but it will be massacred.
This. I thought it should be hee-ta-na. (Now that I write that, I see that I was giving it a Spanish pronounciation.)
GL!
ok ok..sigh.....this is probably why I have never met anyone with the same name as my mother...though I think Gitano Jeans were hip in the eighties (that's the masculine version.) ?
I don't want to have to send her to kindergarten with an instruction sheet. ?Thanks for your thoughts. ?When I come up with new,?pronounceable?ideas, I'll be back to check in! ?
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The G in Gitano jeans is silent? Well, I guess I never pronounced it right. Then again, I was a Jordache girl ;-)
ETA: I wouldn't worry too much about how people may not immediately use the French pronunciation of Lyon. My DS's middle name is Duane, which is my MIL's maiden name. But it's not pronouced Dwayne, it's "Doo-an", because my MIL is from Ireland & that's how they pronounce it. We're taught DS to say it correctly, but I would never expect Americans to get it right.
Sorry, but yes.
Hmm, I don't know that I would skip the name just because people may not get it right the first time. Especially because it's a family name and it's beautifully unique. There are plenty of "American" names that people butcher.
My name is Brianna but pronounced with a long "i" sound, with the nickname Bri (rhymes with 'cry') and I've NEVER had anyone pronounce it correctly the first time. But I don't think it hindered my childhood in any way. I always loved having a unique name...It's always a great conversation starter.
I LOVE the name Sabine, it's actually on my back up list!! Funny coincidence.
Thanks ladies for all of your comments! All helpful, and none hurtful
A "j" signifies a soft "g" like in giraffe. A hard "g" is the opposite--like in gasoline.
It will ALWAYS be misspelled and mispronounced.
Ditto!! I get really annoyed at the close mindedness and judging that goes on when it comes to culturally significant/ethnic names. People should open their minds. Is it really a big deal to have to say your name a second time or spell it for people. I grew up with an Irish last name, I had to spell it (often several times to the same person) constantly and correct people who butchered the pronunciation all the time. My sons name is Indian...yes, I have to spell it and pronounce it for people. It's not a big deal!