Pregnant after a Loss

meet baby Kate and my birth story!

I don?t even know where to start? we had an induction date on Wednesday, October 7th. The day before I woke up in so much pain from pressure. I could hardly walk and started having signs that labor was around the corner. Chris and I celebrated our 2nd anniversary and went to bed?.our last night with just the two of us. We got to the hospital at 5am on Wednesday morning. I can?t tell you how odd it was leaving our house knowing it was the last time it would ever be the 2 of us. We were all checked in and in our labor and delivery room by 6am. I was hooked up to pitocin by 6:30am and started feeling the contractions pretty fast. I started labor at a 2 and 80% effaced. My doctor came in at 7:30am and broke my water. I definitely was not ready for that but it wasn?t bad at all. Felt just like a regular internal exam with a little extra pressure and then a huge gush. (So thankful that it didn?t break while I was shopping!) Contractions started to get more intense and I did my best to hold out a bit for the epidural. After 2 hours I finally couldn?t take it anymore and ordered the epidural. It ended up being the worst experience of my life. The anesthesiologist wouldn?t let anyone except for he and the nurse to be in the room while he did it. My husband waited outside the door?.for an hour and 15 minutes! It took him 9 tries to get the epidural in. Yes, 9. I have never been more miserable in my life!! The contractions were so so painful and relief was not coming, only getting worse. I finally broke down on the 7th try and cried to my nurse to help?I didn?t think I was going to get through it. It was so hard trying to breath through the contractions and not move while he was trying to place it. Once it was placed, it was pretty much instant relief and the best thing ever. I am so glad that I hung in there. By the time I had the epi I was at a 4. I relaxed for a few hours pain free but was throwing up due to my severe heartburn. The doctor checked me a 2pm and I was at an 8. By this time the epidural was starting to wear off. I was feeling some major pressure. An hour later I was checked again because I was feeling the urge to push and I was finally at a 10, 100% effaced and 0 station. It was such an overwhelming feeling. I pushed with every contraction for 45 minutes and finally on the last push came our precious baby girl. Pushing was extremely intense. I thought I knew what I was in for but really had no clue. I had to have an episiotomy but only needed 2 stitches. Not bad! There are so many other details?I could go on and on. All in all it was a wonderful experience (minus the epi) and I?d do it again in a heartbeat. There is nothing more precious than meeting your little one for the first time that you?ve waited so long for. Kate is so precious. She weighed 6lbs 8 oz and was 19.5 inches long. Perfectly healthy and too precious for words. She is such a good baby. There is nothing better in the world than holding her in my arms and seeing my husband hold her. We are so blessed. I am so excited for you girls?.mommy hood is AMAZING!!!!! Tiring, overwhelming, painful but worth everything! Feel free to ask me anything! Hugs to all of you!

 

Meet our precious miracle...

 

15 hours old

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getting ready to go home

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my little peanut

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worn out from her bath

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  • Absolutely gorgeous. :) I'm so happy for you and your new little family!
    BFP #1: 7-26-08, natural m/c 6w4d; BFP #2: 12-6-08, natural m/c 6w5d
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  • She is beautiful! Congrats!
  • OMG Kate is precious!!!!  I love her fuzzy baby hair and sweet little cheeks.  I'm glad your labor went well - minus the epi!  I've never heard of anyone having that much trouble!!  Sorry you had to go through that.  I hope you are feeling better and healing quickly.  Congrats!
  • Thanks for sharing your birth story! Kate is beautiful!
  • She is so beautiful! And look at allllll that hair! no wonder you had so much heartburn! I am so glad everything went well for you (minus the bad epi stuff). Be sure to check back and bring us updates!
    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
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  • Congrats she's gorgeous!!! Yours was one of the birth stories I was waiting for, thanks for sharing!
  • OMG Nikki, she is absolutely gorgeous! Thank you for sharing your story and pics of little Kate.  I know how long you waited to meet her, and she is so lucky to have you and Chris as her parents!  Enjoy every minute of her!

    How is bf'ing going? This is something I am so worried about, if you are bf'ing I hope it's going smoothly!

    Much Love~ 

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  • Thanks so much for sharing your story! Kate is a doll and sounds like it was all worth the wait!!
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  • So beautiful..... Congratulations!
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  • She is beautiful, and you look great in the photo as well!  I am so glad they you are both healthy!
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  • Such a beautiful little girl! Congrats Moma!!
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  • She's so cute! Congratulations!  You look great by the way!
  • Congrats on your beautiful little girl!  I am sorry getting the epi was so hard, but glad that L&D was a pretty good experience other than that!  :)
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  • Congratulations.  Your bundle of joy is a cutie!
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  • Congrats!  She is beautiful!
  • She is gorgeous :) You are such a trooper - So happy for you and Mr. Andrews! xoxo
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  • Congratulations. Kate is beautiful!
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  • OMG she Kate is gorgeous, many many MANY congratulations to the new family!!!!
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  • Congratulations Momma!!  Thanks for sharing your story..sorry the epi was so bad, but I'm glad everyone is healthy and safe!  Kate is adorable!
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  • Oh she is so gorgeous, congrats Nikki!! I'm looking forward to hanging out with you over on PAL!
  • She is so beautiful. I am so happy for you and DH. Congrats on your gorgeous girl!
  • Congrats Mommy! She is precious!
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  • imageSuch-a-girl:
    Congrats she's gorgeous!!! Yours was one of the birth stories I was waiting for, thanks for sharing!

     Me too!! Congrats :) Kate is so precious!

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  • aw she is adorable! you look great, too! ;)
  • Ohh, she is such a beautiful girl! Congrats to you and your H!
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  • Beautiful! Congrats!! I'm so happy for you.
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  • Kate is absolutely adorable!  Her hair is so precious!  What a wonderful and blessed family you have to have her in your arms now!! :-)
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  • So precious Congrats!!!!!
  • OMG, she is beautiful!  Congratulations and thanks for sharing!
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  • I'm so sorry about your epidural experience - that sounds horrible! Your baby is just beautiful, absolutely amazing.
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  • Gorgeous pics! So glad to see them. Also glad labor went well (minus the epi- yikes- so sorry you went through that!). I hope you all are feeling a bit more settled at this point and getting at least a bit of rest. Congrats again!
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  • imagelabbie1821:

    OMG Nikki, she is absolutely gorgeous! Thank you for sharing your story and pics of little Kate.  I know how long you waited to meet her, and she is so lucky to have you and Chris as her parents!  Enjoy every minute of her!

    How is bf'ing going? This is something I am so worried about, if you are bf'ing I hope it's going smoothly!

    Much Love~ 

    BFing is going well. It's tough but I am so determined to stick it out. My milk came in last night and they aren't kidding when they say they feel like rocks. She will not feed off my left side so Im going to see what's going on with that tomorrow...in the mean time my pump is my left sides best friend!

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  • Congratulations! Kate is Beautiful!
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  • Congratulations!!! She is perfect!!!
  • Thank you for sharing your birth story! Baby Kate is absolutely adorable and i'm so happy for you and your DH!
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  • Nikki....she is ADORABLE!!!  So stinkin cute and you look amazing too!  Thanks for sharing your story.....my heart is so happy for you that you and your DH are now a family of THREE!!:)
  • That is total crap that they wouldn't let your husband in the room during your epi.  DH is the one person I would want (need!) during such a difficult time!!  However, I'm glad it was soooo worth it.  She is beautiful! Congrats!
  • Congratulations!  Baby Kate is adorable!  Sorry you had such a rough time with the epidural. 
  • She is absolutely gorgeous and you look wonderful and so happy. Congrats to the three of you!
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  • Sorry about the crappy Epi, but I'm glad everything else went so well and Kate is beautiful!
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