How do you refer to one over the other? Do you call them by name, if they're b/g do you say "the boy" or "the girl", by their letters (A and

, "this one", other? I always call them by letter. We're pretty sure we have names picked out, but don't know which one will end up with which name, and they're both boys, so that's the best way we can describe which one is doing what.
Re: Those PG, what do you call your babies?
We call them babies and then baby A and baby B.
My mom calls them Jacobettes (something biblical I think). And, she keeps practically grabbing my crotch when she sees me to 'say hi to the Jacobettes'. I was like, mom...you're grabbing my crotch practically and she said, well I know they're low. UGH! So I've asked her to just grab my fat roll a little higher please.
I usually just call them my little monkeys; it fits since that's our nursery theme. Since it's still early for me and we don't know what we're having yet, I don't really need to differentiate between one or the other.
I do refer to them as A & B when relating details of my ultrasounds, but even that doesn't make total sense to me since they might "switch" in-between - last U/S they were both dead even so the doctors couldn't even tell which was A and which was B.
when i was pg with Griffin we called him "Schmaby" - it was truly his name- and hard to quit saying after he was born!
when i was pg with the twins they were just "the babies" or "Baby A and Baby B"... or "Leftie and Rightie" - we never "named" them... and never called them by their real names, because we didn't share those with others and didn't want to slip- and i also just felt funny doing that- like it would jinx me.
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My girls have names already but we don't want to tell anyone until they are born, so to prevent slipups DH and I still call them A and B.
Although sometimes A is 'twinkle toes' because she moves her little feet like crazy anytime I eat anything cold
I think her toes are near my stomach and she gets cold toes!
We always called them A and B - here is a picture of their Christmas stockings from last year:
Usually just "The Babies". Sometimes Baby A and Baby B. We haven't picked names yet...it's harder this time around!
My dad started calling them X and Y (after finding out we were having a boy and a girl, LOL).