If you died...

TriciaChick

Do you think DH would eventually remarry and vice versa?

crazynervous

DH yes, and me no

Temp374386125003286

I think we both would eventually but it would take a long time.  I can't picture mh remarrying but I hope he would someday.

oparcm

I think dh would.  Me, no thank you.

butterbeansmama

DH, no. Me, probably.

JOEBunny

I hope so.  No point in suffering.  I will be dead or visa versa.

breezee_bean

DH wouldn't, he said having one wife taught him better (he's totally joking.)  I would *maybe* consider it after my kids are grown.  But most def. not before that. 

goodheartedmommy

DH says no. I don't think I would. I guess you don't know until you're there. I'm torn on if I would want him to. I obviously want him to be happy, and I want my kids to have a mom, but a part of me dies inside when I think about someone else being THEIR mother--making the parenting decisions. There are so many things important to me, and I can't stand the thought of my kids being raised in a completely different manner.

I think I would always long for a relationship. But I don't think I could ever get to the point of marrying again. Who knows? 

muchlove

I think we both probably would at some point. I hope we would for my kids' sakes. Otherwise it changes the dynamic of the surviving parent with the kids forever-even as adults

 

Emiliana7

DH- no, he wouldn't I really think. me however, yeah, definitely. But after an appropiate grieving time.

MelandJeff

I imagine we both would at some point....

cnybride2be

i wasn't sure i'd get married at all and then i met him, if you're alotted that more than once in life then yeah i would.  Would he?  I hope so. I'd hate the idea of him sitting around alone pining after my memory.  unless we are like 95, then he should stay single.  there is no need for him to bring a date if we are going to meet up again soon.

annak23

We have both told each other that it's ok to remarry & be happy if one of us dies.  I think we both would eventually. We believe that there is more than 1 right person out there for you.

goldenprincess

DH  has told me that he wouldn't re-marry and I don't think that I would either.

Katesmama

DH no.  Me yes.  We've discussed this a lot actually.  My DH has a terminal illness that will take him from us far to soon and it's his wish for me to move on and find another husband and a father figure for K. 
This may sound horrible but he's even made suggestions on people we know that he thinks would be good fit.  Discussing stuff like this is all part of our coping process.