I know that I have seen that there is a website that will tell you the best paint options for your bedding, but don't remember the website.
We are using the bedding Bananafish Cocoa, depending on the paint color we use, we'll either get white or espresso furniture.
Re: paint suggestions...
babysupermall.com offers this. The link for your pattern is https://www.babysupermall.com/main/products/ban/bancoc0181bru.html
I love this bedding too!