Adoption

Those who have financed adoption

We did a home equity loan last time but since then moved and now rent, so no equity!  We're looking into our options and I am wondering what your experience was with it?

I am looking into an adoption credit card that has 0% interest for 6 months (not sure what the % will be after 6 months though), also a loan through the Abba foundation, but that one you won't know you're approved until your homestudy is already done (boo).  We will be able to pay the loan off in full by the end of 2011, so we only need a shorter term loan.

Any tips/help would be great!

Thanks!

Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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Re: Those who have financed adoption

  • We were really lucky to have received an inheritance to cover about 1/2 of our placement fee.  We had saved some more on our own and borrowed a chunk from my family.  We are going to repay them once we receive the adoption tax credit next year...we will be hurrying to get our taxes done early this year!  Maybe you have already considered and rejected this suggestion though...

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    We were really lucky to have received an inheritance to cover about 1/2 of our placement fee.  We had saved some more on our own and borrowed a chunk from my family.  We are going to repay them once we receive the adoption tax credit next year...we will be hurrying to get our taxes done early this year!  Maybe you have already considered and rejected this suggestion though...

    We would really prefer to finance it on our own. I know my FIL has the money, but he is retired and most of his extra money is in stocks, so why ask him to take it out for us when we can finance it ourselves you know? We just have to find the right route Big Smile

    However, if we couldn't get financing for some reason we would ask him.  It's just our last preference.

    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • We were able to get a low interest loan from the bank.  We were approved for way more than we needed, so we took out what we needed at the time of the match, than we are taking the remainder out at placement.  In the meantime we are applying for grants in hope that we don't need to take any more out than we already have.
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    imagejewele803:

    We were really lucky to have received an inheritance to cover about 1/2 of our placement fee.  We had saved some more on our own and borrowed a chunk from my family.  We are going to repay them once we receive the adoption tax credit next year...we will be hurrying to get our taxes done early this year!  Maybe you have already considered and rejected this suggestion though...

    We would really prefer to finance it on our own. I know my FIL has the money, but he is retired and most of his extra money is in stocks, so why ask him to take it out for us when we can finance it ourselves you know? We just have to find the right route Big Smile

    However, if we couldn't get financing for some reason we would ask him.  It's just our last preference.

     I totally understand...we had almost everything saved but then needed to dip into it to pay for some unexpected house repairs, so we were kind of in a pinch and my parents were thrilled to be able to help out this way.  You're right that everyone has to find their own route...

  • We were able to use liquid cash/savings thus far.  We anticipate using a 0% interest CC for the finalization costs.  At first we resisted doing this, but finally rationalized that we'd get a lot of airline miles using the cc, and will have it paid off in the new year with the tax credit.

    Friends of ours adopted from Korea, and two years later adopted twins in a last minute, "Can you take these babies?" situation.  They lightheartedly say that they'll be in debt for a very long time, but they have a happy family so they could care less. :-)

  • I didn't want to sacrifice our cash savings, so I borrowed 30K on one of our CC.  They offered me 3.99% for the life of the balance.  No bank was gonna give me those terms.

    I'm not a debt-phobe - I look at it kind of like a car payment. 

     

    2 years TTC with 5 losses, 1 year recovering, 6 months applying for adoption approval, and almost a year waiting for a placement. Then, a miracle BFP at age 36!


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  • We saved like crazy for the past two years not taking vactions like we love to do. I paid off some debt and the payments are now going into the baby fund. I think we will be able to pay all of ours without having to borrow but our is only going to be around $5,000 I think.
  • We did a 401K loan.  Interest was low, but we're paying ourselves back.  With the tax credit, we'll get a lot of it back.

    TTC since May 2006. After 3 failed Clomid cycles, 2 failed Injectibles/IUIs, 2 failed IVFs and 1 failed FET, we moved on to adoption! 

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    Last ditch FET resulted in BFP, and identical twin girls!

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