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Lost

I am losing the baby. I spent 8 hours in the ER on Saturday (doc said to go to the ER if my spotting got worse since they couldn't for sure rule out ectopic). My hCG levels had increased but not enough and the ultrasound revealed the sac that was there last Monday was no longer there.

I went in yesterday for another follow up blood draw and am waiting to hear from my doctor to make sure my hCG levels are going down since they are sure I'm miscarrying. If they go up I have to go back in for another ultrasound to make sure there aren't any issues. From the discharge I've had I'm pretty sure I wont need a D&C.

This blows.

TTC #1 Sept 2008
M/C 9/21/09 | M/C 12/24/09 | BFP 1/23/10
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BFP 3/12/13 | EDD 11/18/13
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  • Oh honey I'm so sorry...I wish I had the words. Sad

    I lost my first baby at 11 weeks after seeing the heartbeat at 8 weeks. There's no way to describe the feeling, but I just want you to know that we're here for you, and if you need to take a break from all the baby stuff, that's okay too.

    And if you want just talk, please post or email me at angelanderic2005 at yahoo.

     

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  • Oh Jen, I am so so sorry. Sending you tons of hugs. 
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  • Big hugs! I am so sorry for your loss. We are here for you if you need us.
  • I am so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry. Sending you much love.
  • I'm so very sorry.  Hang in there.

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  • Oh Jen, I am so sorry for your loss!  I know how badly you wanted this and how much it must hurt.  Hugs!
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  • Please vent away if you need.  And huge hugs to you.  Keep us posted how the HCG levels go. 

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  • I'm so sorry hun (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry you have to go thru this. Hugs.

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  • I am so, so, so sorry! I wish there was something I could do to make the pain go away for you and DH. We are here for you dear. You are in my prayers!!!
  • Jen, I am so sorry. You will be in my thoughts. 
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  • I'm so, so sorry Jen. Hugs x a million.
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  • Jen I am so sad for you that you have to go through this. I too have had a miscarriage & it is horrible to go through (I miscarried the same night we found out Crying ). My doctor told me that it is VERY common, 1 in 4 women miscarry then go onto having healthy pregnancies afterwards.

    All I can say is that my thoughts are with you & your DH at this time. Take care of yourself Left Hug

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  • Oh Jen, I am so, so sorry.  I know how long you had been trying for your little bean.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH.
  • I'm so so very sorry to hear that!  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH.  
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  • I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself over the next few days.


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    IVF/ICIS #1 in June 2012 (Protocol: Long Lupron). Stims: 6/17/12, ER: 6/30/12 (6R, 5M, 4F), ET: 7/5/12 (1 4AA embryo transferred, 0 made it to freeze) ~ Beta#1: 7/14/12 - 55, Beta#2: 7/16/12 - 100, Beta#3: 7/18/12 - 199 ~ Limbo for weeks, finally confirmed pregnancy not viable: 8/13/12 ~ D&C: 8/17/12 
    Varicocele Surgery: October 2012 (long break to wait for results, no change) 
    Changed clinics: February 2013 
    IVF/ICIS Attempt #2 in April 2013 (Protocol: Antagonist). Stims: 4/12/13, Cycle Cancelled: 4/17/13 for poor follicle response and low E2 rise. 
    IVF/ICIS Attempt #3 in May 2013 (Protocol: LEAP) Cycle Cancelled: 5/20/13 at suppression check due to cyst
    IVF/ICIS Attempt #4 in July 2013 (Protocol: LEAP). Stims: 7/20/13, ER: 8/1/13 (12R, 11M, 9F), ET: 8/6/13 (3 fair embryos transferred, 0 made it to freeze) ~ Beta#1: 8/15/13 - 86, Beta#2: 8/18/13 - 390.6, Ultrasound: 9/3/13 - TWO HEARTBEATS! 

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  • That really sucks. I'm thinking of you.
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  • Oh My Gosh! I don't know why I didn't read this earlier, I thought it was about the show Lost.

    I am so sorry Jen!! That is so unfair and my heart is just breaking for you! I don't know what else to say except you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so so sorry!

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  • Oh Jen, Im so sorry =(   Lots of thoughts and prayers are coming your way.
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