A new member of the STFU club

giaM28

i went to a baby shower over the weekend for a childhood friend. Her mother and my mom are BFFs since we were both in elementary. Well the mother came up to me and was asking how i was doing because my mom had mentioned that i was sick last week. (better now!)

her: how are you feeling? you are always sick!

me: im fine thank you. im feeling 100% better.

her: yea but you are always sick. i guess it doenst matter how big a family is there is always one that is always sick and in the hospital. everytime i talk to your mom there is something wrong with you! lets just hope your kids are ok and take after your husband. are you having any soon? that should be hard for you.

me: (sarcastic) well i guess im just Lucky!!

(throat punch and walk away)

i really wish i would have told her off but shes my moms friend. it made me so upset. who the hell does she think she is? FYI-i see her about once a year. shes very snooty and jealous. her daughter got KU by her BF they had a shot gun city hall wedding and they are both living with her parents...along with his son from his former FF. he is 35...she is 23. everytime she can take a jab at me she does. i think i might talk to my mom about what she said to me. it really hurt.

mrsmacias2008

  stupid lady.

I am sorry you have to deal with dumb a$$es like that.

buckin

I would totally have said something to the effect of "Well we can't all be perfect, knocked up by a loser and living in our mother's basement. I guess I just have to take the hand that was dealt to me: germs, my husband and my own house."

weelass24

OMG.  Did they get married in Kew Gardens???  LOL.. 

MaxOrTori

::hugs:: I'm sorry. 

mmk3742

Wow!  I am sorry you had to deal with her.

giaM28

buckin:

I would totally have said something to the effect of "Well we can't all be perfect, knocked up by a loser and living in our mother's basement. I guess I just have to take the hand that was dealt to me: germs, my husband and my own house."

oh it took every single ounce of strengh not to say that. i was biting the inside of my lip every time i saw her. the only reason i didnt say anything is because i didnt want to cause a scene at my friends shower and out of respect for my mom.

buckin

Unfortunately, I have no filter when it comes to something like that no matter where I am. If someone wants to disrespect me to my face, I'm going to bite back. They usually are so shocked they don't make a scene anyway.

One of my many flaws.

lecooke

::golf claps for your ability to not beat her::

I'm so sorry that you had to deal with this.   

giaM28

i totally understand you. i normally am the same way but i lost my nerve and i was able to control myself. if it was just the sick part i would have prob said something but the fact that she brought up getting PG really struck a nerve.  i didn't tell anyone about the m/c and i didn't want to accidentally say it. when i go off i have no filter.

she would make a scene. picture every Queens stereotype- big hair, bleach blond, acrylic nails, way to much make up, pick lipstick LOUD as all hell and very large-with tight ass clothes usually neon or animal print. shes seriously white trash. i don't understand how my mom gets along with her so well. i guess opposites attract.