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I'm SURROUNDED

butterball123butterball123
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By pregnant people.  They are everywhere and all they want to talk about is themselves and their babies!  I don't know if I can keep in my pissiness at life today.  I hope I don't explode on one of their poor unsuspecting souls, ugh.  I'm having a big "WHY ME" moment this morning, can you tell?

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  • bebebluesbebeblues

    I have those days atleast 4-5 days a week!! LOL!!!

    I know the feeling. I now know 8 girls who are ku. I'm concerned that I've waited so long to really start ttc this time. I didn't want a big gap between my dd and another baby----and seeing how I was one of those ku "1st-2nd cycle by sheer luck girls", I didn't think we needed to try any earlier. Now I'm on cycle #3 (well, sort of #4, but I think I missed O in June) of actively ttc and we stopped tta back in May----which would've been all I needed to do in the past.....Boo on life sometimes, huh?

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  • MrsDCruzMrsDCruz member

    I have those days too... I want a baby so bad that my body will physically ache. =o(

    BFP #1 4/2/09 EDD 12/6/09 -MC 4/12/09 BFP #2 6/2/09 EDD 2/14/10 -Ectopic in Tube, Surgery 6/23/09 BFP #3 10/15/09 EDD 6/27/10 -Daniel John 6/21/10 BFP #4 Oct 2010 Chemical Pregnancy BFP #5 8/19/11 Beta #1 82.8 Prog 17.25
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  • MarriedandlovingitMarriedandlovingit member
    I am too girl....it sucks sometimes. To make matters worse, several of them weren't even trying. :( It is perfectly normal to have days like this....that is what I am telling myself too.
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    Blighted Ovum 7/2008 (D&C)
    Ectopic 7/2009 (Emergency surgery:removal of left tube)
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    DS #1: 2/7/11
    Ectopic 2/2012
    BFP: 12/24/2013
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  • butterball123butterball123

    imageMarriedandlovingit:
    I am too girl....it sucks sometimes. To make matters worse, several of them weren't even trying. :( It is perfectly normal to have days like this....that is what I am telling myself too.

    You aren't kidding....I don't know what makes me more mad/sad, hearing "we weren't even trying" or "i feel so nauseas and bloated, I can't take it anymore", or "we got to see our baby today" or "I just want this baby to get here already" or "I am so tired, I just want to sleep".....what I wouldn't give to be ANY of that right now.  I want so badly to get pregnant and it seems life it just toying with me every dang month.  This emotional roller coaster SUCKS. 

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  • mjzmjz

    I feel exactly the same way. It pisses me off when people tell me they weren't even trying, or worse, that they weren't happy about it in the beginning.

    Sometimes I just want to tell these women about my losses just to make them feel bad.

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  • LMichelleGLMichelleG member
    I come running to this board whenever I feel that way. I'm sooo sorry you are dealing with this!
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