you get in contact with the birthparents?
did they find you? you find them? word of mouth? an attorney?
1. Attorney (facilitators aren't allowed in my state, so all private adoptions are attorney only)
2. Word of mouth
Our story is a bit complex...
I had mentioned to a close friend that we were about to undergo IVF (in 3 months) but that a part of my heart wanted to also pursue adoption but was discouraged when researching Adoption in our country.
Fast forward: she was at work the very next day when a lady she works with came in crying that she was at her church and a gentleman asked for prayer for a 20 yr old girl pregnant with her 4th child who couldn't afford to keep the child and didn't know what to do.
I gave permission for her to pass on our info and here we are.