Well... Holy Eff.

CarrieLeigh84

Bahahaha. Just reading back on the board from earlier today.

Eff board police. Not cool.

I'm bitter. I'm ok with this. I'm not going to lie.. I HATE drive bys! 

Would it be cool to go over to the PAL boards and go 'hey ladies.. I totally read your board.. just thought I'd let you know I'm KTFU.. no previous losses or anything. I'm healthy and effing fantastic.. thanks for everything!'??????

I come here because it's one of the only places that I've found such a down to earth group of women who understand what it's like to be in my shoes. We *** together, cry together, laugh together. If we're going to be called out for that, so be it. I won't change.

Stupid McStupidsons. 

 

 

Can't Wait To Be A Mama

You hit the nail on the head. I think that there are a quiet a few boards that are having a lot of drive-by's lately. It's bugs the heck out of me too.  

PS I love this board, it is great, heck I might even like it better than my other board. 

candycane3t

too bad I missed out on adding my 2 cents to the posts this evening as I was out but I will say this....

I love the regulars on this board and god willing I get my BFP one day, it is going to be so very hard to join those whistle blowers.

CarrieLeigh84

candycane3t:

too bad I missed out on adding my 2 cents to the posts this evening as I was out but I will say this....

I love the regulars on this board and god willing I get my BFP one day, it is going to be so very hard to join those whistle blowers.

 

Hopefully by the time we get our BFP's they'll have moved onto 'Soccer Moms Who Have No Life' 

Now there's a board they can create and police to their hearts content.

bonnieblue1

I'm a newbie to posting on here and so far LOVE LOVE LOVE this board.  I agree, its a place where I can express my feelings and thoughts even if they are totally petty and snarky.  And, even as kind of an outside since I haven't been posting for more than a few days, I totally understand that its taken as kind of a smack in the face when random strangers drop on here for the soul purpose of braggin about their BFPs.

swanck

I'm a newbie around here too - and just caught up on the drama of the day.  I have to say that TTCAL is the perfect place to come and feel like your not alone in your pain.  I've only posted a couple of times...but what an incredible group of women that accept us in whatever state we are in!  I wouldn't be the same without them.

But whatever I post on here, I always try to do so thinking about how it would be perceived by everyone else on the board.  I try to consider how it would make them feel in their situations. 

It's just inconsiderate with someone drops in.... spills their crap, and doesn't consider the mess they've left behind.  I guess that's how I feel about drive-by's.

heathergirl67

Why is it that when we lose a baby we relinquish the right to have any emotions other than compassion and delight?  My baby died inside of me and... maybe you should be sitting down for this... it makes me more of a bitter b!tch sometimes!  Shocking, I know.  I hate that they say how "loss boards should be about support.  There should be no snark on loss boards."  I don't know quite how it happened to them, but I'm glad that when I suffered my loss I continued to be a complex individual with a myriad of feelings and responses.

ssaimee

I'm a newbie and have only been on this board for a few weeks, but I love this board. Of course I hate that we all have to be here but at least we have each other, and I think that I am definitely going to have to start posting more often because I would hate to look like a drive by when one day (fingers crossed) I get my BFP. I really only get on here on work nights after midnight and occasionally during the day for maybe an hour so I don't get to be super active in a lot of the posts, though I would love to. I know that I don't want to leave this board even after I get my BFP, but I will if thats best for the group. I love all you ladies you always make my day!

heathergirl67

ssaimee:

I'm a newbie and have only been on this board for a few weeks, but I love this board. Of course I hate that we all have to be here but at least we have each other, and I think that I am definitely going to have to start posting more often because I would hate to look like a drive by when one day (fingers crossed) I get my BFP. I really only get on here on work nights after midnight and occasionally during the day for maybe an hour so I don't get to be super active in a lot of the posts, though I would love to. I know that I don't want to leave this board even after I get my BFP, but I will if thats best for the group. I love all you ladies you always make my day!

You don't have to leave once you've made yourself known, even once you graduate to SAL.  We make friends with the girls who contribute and get to know us so the vast majority of us like to maintain those relationships wherever we may go.  It's just the people who introduce themselves with a BFP.  It will be easy to remember you with that pic of your adorable doggie in your siggie.

lil_rhody

heathergirl67:

Why is it that when we lose a baby we relinquish the right to have any emotions other than compassion and delight?  My baby died inside of me and... maybe you should be sitting down for this... it makes me more of a bitter b!tch sometimes!  Shocking, I know.  I hate that they say how "loss boards should be about support.  There should be no snark on loss boards."  I don't know quite how it happened to them, but I'm glad that when I suffered my loss I continued to be a complex individual with a myriad of feelings and responses.

This is my favorite response ever.