Help or harm?

Mrs0815

Ok, here's the deal.  Manny Manula my housekeeper/nicest lady ever has 4 kids.  One of them is a teen in the 9th grade.  She told me she is being bullied by some chick at school and it's really bothering her.  She is small, quiet, mousy, doesn't have all the money in the world to keep up with trends, etc. and this is taking a real toll on her demeanor.  Her mom just says ignore it kids will be kids but it bothers me to no end to see her cry.  I'm thinking about taking a day off and going up to her school and embarrassing to crap out of that bratty little b!tch infront of the entire cool kid population.  I was once a snotty bully myself but I never picked on girls like this-the under dog. 

I'd wear my best shoes and say charming things she won't soon forget??

1stTimeMommy2Be

lol i'm not sure the school will let you in the doors lol

i'd love to watch you do it... can you come do that to all my bratty students for me??

maybe buy her a few nice things?

AmieVan

Unfortunately, that might make it worse.  Kids are soo mean!  It might help if you give her some of your gently used clothes/shoes/bags, or take her shopping.  Poor kid.  Mean people suck...they suck as kids and then suck as adult.

dondraandluis

As good as it sounds I would say that it would do more harm. I hate kids like that. It's so mean. Bullies piss me off!

mlmtgg

I say the little sweetie-pie needs to take lessons from you so she can waltz up to that bully and show them what's what Mrs0815 style. You can be like a big-sister. . .

 

Mrs0815

I give her soooo much stuff (sadly our shoes aren't the same size) but she prefers regular GAP stuff (that I do buy her) to my bedazzled Dolce & Gabbana jacket (Whaaaat is wrong with this child???) 

I don't want to make it worst but once in highschool someone picked on my little sister and I caught her in the hallway from behind and wispered in her ear that if it ever happened again I would catch her in a big group, get everyone's attention and say something so witty, so funny, but so ugly and hurtful that it would ring in her ear everytime she looked in the mirror and that she would remember me the rest of her life....that worked and it was just a threat!

1stTimeMommy2Be

if she doesn't want your D&G jacket, i'll take your hand-me-downs haha

Addicted2thenot

Harm, she would get picked on more

I am sorry, kids can be cruel

Mrs0815

yeah, I figured I shouldn't embarass her.  I'll just take her shopping, but her a bag full of MAC and give her 3-4 snappy comebacks and send her amoungst the wolves.  Sometimes that's all a girl has.