...how did you pick one? I delivered ds several years ago in Rochester and went through the midwives @ Mayo. My cousin recommended her midwife and I was very happy. Now we live in St. Paul and are going to start ttc again next month. I need to have a midwife soon, God willing. I found all the resources for finding midwives but, how do I pick one? I don't know anyone who used a midwife in the twin cities. Ideas? I assume I'll have to interview some but, you can only find out so much from an interview. TIA.
Re: Midwives...
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We picked ours after interviewing their philosophy of birth and how they typically do things. We wanted someone who had the same views of how a birth could go and went with them. We are going with the MWs at 'North Metro Midwives' and they're based out of a clinic. I know they deliver at North Memorial in Robbinsdale, but they may do a hospital in St. Paul. Not too sure...
Either way, you should ultimately pick someone you trust will help you get the birth you'd like as best as they can (of course, keep an open mind for the unexpected, but even then trust is SO important)! The interviews helped for us... I try to look for how personable they are, too. I'm an open, kind of loud girl, so I want someone who can go with the flow with me when I'm in labor and "keep it real" with me and my DH when it comes to what we need to do.?
Trust your gut!?