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Do you ever wonder ....

What that moment will be like when you can tell DH you are pg? I know, I try to keep the thoughts at bay...but they usually make there way in when I am starting a new cycle. I have my scan Thursday and the thoughts are here. Embarrassed
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Re: Do you ever wonder ....

  • I think about it ALL.THE.TIME! and then I think about how we will tell the parents.. still haven't thought of exactly what we will do.. but I know how I will tell DH.. I've had that planned for a loooong time (before I knew about my IF) *le sigh*
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  • I daydream about it. I hope that I'll be able to come up with something cool, but I'll probably just blurt it out! LOL!
  • Yes, and then I'm scared I'm jinxing myself and I push the thoughts out. I can't wait, but I am so scared that if I jinx myself I won't get pregnant ever.
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  • I know what you mean :) I have ideas but I think since we have waited so long I won't be able to keep it to go through my "plan"  !
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  • I bought a NFL onsie that I planned to give him. That was 2.5 years ago. I have no idea where it went. When I did get pregnant after my beta call I calld him balling.  At 10DPO it was negative, but I went back in at 17DPO and  it was like 1000. And I was so happy, but cried and cried. He thought it was bad news. oops.

    Not sure what I will do when/if there is a next time.

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  • I think about it, but it doesn't seem like it will ever happen. The one time I was able to tell him, we had a early miscarriage. ((sigh))

  • This thought goes through my head practically every month. I've come up with some great idea... but will probably just blurt it out when the time actually comes.
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  • When we first started TTC I was able to picture what it would be like to tell DH, but now I don't really have a vision of what that moment will look like.  Will he be at the RE's office with me when I find out?  Will he be with me as a I look at the test?  Will I surprise him?  Will I just blurt it out on the phone to him?  I'm sure the surprise element of that moment will still be there just because all of our other cycles have been letdowns. 
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    Yes, and then I'm scared I'm jinxing myself and I push the thoughts out. I can't wait, but I am so scared that if I jinx myself I won't get pregnant ever.
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  • I do but then I get the thought "what if I never get to do that?!?" then I get sad.
    Stacy
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