My best friend doesn't have kids yet. Yesterday she emailed me about her TTC plans and said she wished she could just get pregnant now because work is really stressful and she'd love 12 weeks off. Yup, being at home with a newborn is a great stress reliever. heh
Re: This made me laugh
DD -- 5YO
DS -- 3YO
Me, too! It was NOT a vacation, and the first 6 or 8 weeks, I really felt like couldn't do too much out of the house. What does she think she's going to be able to do with a NB that would be so great?
My 27 yr old sister said the exact same thing last week and I wrote her a seriously long email detailing what its like to be pregnant, give birth and then be home with a baby AND have that child be your responsibility until they are an adult..hahaha...I love my DD but being a mom is hard work and stressful too!
My first maternity leave was stressful. But after working full time and caring for a toddler, my second maternity leave was a total vacation. I was so relaxed and couldn't remember why I thought it was so hard the first time!
Cleaning my house and doing laundry, watching Bravo tv marathons, going to the park with the kids in the afternoon - I loved it!