So mad at DH! (NTTTCR)

PrincessShay80

OMG! He is just on my last nerve. To make a really long story short- he does not appreciate anything I do. I work full time and run our business, not to mention all the other household stuff (dry cleaning, cooking, laundry) Yesterday he kept asking me if I called someone, that just put me over the edge. He knew I was slammed yesterday and would not have time to call this person. I feel like he's my parent asking me if I did my homework over and over again! Im still mad this morning!

I feel like we fight over stupid things, why is that?

 

MBandBud

hahaha, I hope you don't mind my chuckle, but I do this...feel unappreciated and get overwhelmed and then one thing falls through and I lose it.  I have learned to ask for help or say that I can't do x right now and could use the help.  I used to also think that my husband would 'know I was slammed' but the truth is he doesn't.  I tend to juggle way too much and while he knows that usually I am able to keep all the balls in the air.  When they fall it becomes my responsibilty b/c I put too many up there to begin with.  We have gotten to a good place in terms of being able to divert stupid arguments by being supportive but it takes good communication in terms of needs/abilities and is a work in progress.  GL and tell him to make that call

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Girl that's the beauty of being married... But when you find an answer to this please enlighten me with it...

renafaith

HAHA! I can definitely relate. DH and I have been married just over a year and I can think of 3 major fights we've had since we've been married....and I only remember the reason for 1. Sad thing is, you're going to remember what you said and did to each other while you were mad and not remember what it was about. So, what have you really accomplished?

rsrn02

ah yes you sound like me and dh. usually its stupid stuff we fight over. usually when i'm super busy and he's not.

it'll get better. just try to let him know your feelings as the day goes on.  you are busy and don't have time.

men.  sometimes they just don't have a clue.  we are multitaskers they are not.  they are kidding when people say men have one track minds.

hope it gets better.  deep breaths hon.