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what is the most annoying thing

your dh does?
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It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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Re: what is the most annoying thing

  • He blows his nose 1,000 times a day. I know he can't control it because has has really bad allergies...but it still drives me crazy! lol
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  • Leaves every single drawer he uses halfway open.  How hard is it to close the damn drawer?!

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  • leaves crumbs on the kitchen counters...EVERY DAY
  • Oh wow. This is SO hard to decide. It really depends on the day. For today....him falling asleep on the couch and not coming to bed until 4am.
  • will not place his dirty clothes in a hamper. He has to leave them next to it so I always have to pick it up and put it in. Grrrr!!!
  • Makes a sandwich right on the bare countertop with no plate or cutting board underneath. ?He leaves a spackling of crumbs all over the kitchen.?

    Most annoying TTC-related thing? ?Sometimes he talks a little too overconfidently about our future baby. ?And I know he means well, but this makes me terrified and depressed at the same time.?

  • Hmmm...two things: 

    1) leaves his beer cans/bottles ALL OVER 

    2) has his Crackberry velcroed to his hand at.all.times...

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  • Nothing too terrible, but here are a few little things:

    - leaves the bathroom light on

    - balances dishes on the edge of the sink rather than just putting them in the g-darn dishwasher!

    - sings the wrong lyrics to popular songs in a really high voice

    - waits until he is down to his last pair of underwear before he tells me he needs the laundry done

    - when he spits out his toothpaste he doesn't lean far enough into the sink and it gets all over the faucet and mirror.

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  • underwear on the bathroom floor and the rest of his clothes on our loveseat!

    take you f'n clothes and put them in the hamper damn it!!!!!!Angry

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • He doesn't know how to eat -  seriously - he takes the biggest bites possible and his mouth is so full that I can hear all the slurping and annoying sounds people make when they eat.  And when he eats cereal, its even worse.  I blame his parents, they are so weird and think its cute that he does this, so they never corrected it when he was growing up.   I actually have gotten mad over this at certain points. Sometimes I refuse to eat at the dinner table with him - Lol.  He does eat normal in public though - thank god.

     

  • Crawls into bed after his soccer match w/o showering!!
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  • Leaves his dirty clothes EVERYWHERE!  Seriously.  He strips down once he walks in the door & get undressed on his way to the bedroom, bathroom, etc.  I once went to class & had a pair of his dirty boxers in my backpack because it happened to be open where he threw them that night.
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  • hmmm where do i start?!?!?

    leaves beard clippings on the bathroom sink (espcially after I just cleaned it).

    there's more... but that is my biggest pet peeve!!!

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  • shaved hairs all over the bathroom sink!

    cannot close drawers or cabinets all the way and sometimes things are sticking out

    ?

    but I love him anyway....?

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  • imageHarleyQ8:
    Oh wow. This is SO hard to decide. It really depends on the day. For today....him falling asleep on the couch and not coming to bed until 4am.

    omg!!! mine too - it drives me nuts! 

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  • Eats the last granola bar / pack of cookies / can of soda (anything that comes in a cardboard package) and leaves the empty box in the cabinet.

    On days when he works the late shift at work, he leaves the house, picks up the mail (our mailbox is not by our front door), then drives away with it on the floor of his car, where it sometimes stays for weeks.  Luckily, he doesn't work nights too much.

    And lastly, he gets home before me most days and deadbolts the door in from the garage.  This means when I get home, and am almost always carrying something other than myself, I have to fumble around with whatever I'm holding AND the extra key to get inside.  What a PITA! 

  • He talks too much when I call to ask a quick question.

    For ex:

    Me: hey... do we need milk?

    Him: yes, we do.  As a matter of fact, I was just thinking, we need milk.  I was trying to decide if I wanted to run out.  But then I got sidetracked and started working on some school work.  Your know what happened today? BLAH< BLAH< BLAH!

    Christ!  Do we need milK?  Hello and goodbye!  It SHOULD be that easy!

    Other than that... he is a peach! ;) 

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  • The MOST annoying thing is probably his inability to be on time EVER for anything. It drives me crazy especially when I'm sitting somewhere waiting for him. Beyond that there are dozens of other little things that I just live with so as not to be a nag...the crumbs on the counters things is a definitely one. :)
  • imagetheworms:

    underwear on the bathroom floor and the rest of his clothes on our loveseat!

    take you f'n clothes and put them in the hamper damn it!!!!!!Angry

    OMG EXACTLY THIS!!!!!!!!!

    Worms, our husbands must be related somehow

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  • He hasn't been too annoying lately, but he often forgets where the garbage is located.  I'll find small little receipts everywhere, tags from new clothes on the dresser and beer bottle caps on the kitchen counter. 

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  • - He leaves his shaved whiskers all over the bathroom counter.

    - When something is empty, he doesn't throw it away. He leaves it on the counter.

    - He leaves the toilet seat up.

    - When he's really hungry he chews with his mouth open and smacks his lips together really REALLY loud! Ick!

  • Depends on the day. But usually either leaving dirty dishes in the sink or not putting things back where they belong.

  • Right now I am really easily irritated so everything he does gets under my skin.  Thank you Lupron and stress. 

    Mostly, he asks a lot of questions and he watches Youtube and laughs really loud.  I love that man, but I want to punch him sometimes.

    Oh, and he can never figure out what he wants to eat.

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  • imagesmilee:

    He talks too much when I call to ask a quick question.

    For ex:

    Me: hey... do we need milk?

    Him: yes, we do.  As a matter of fact, I was just thinking, we need milk.  I was trying to decide if I wanted to run out.  But then I got sidetracked and started working on some school work.  Your know what happened today? BLAH< BLAH< BLAH!

    Christ!  Do we need milK?  Hello and goodbye!  It SHOULD be that easy!

    Other than that... he is a peach! ;) 

    OMG, this is me and my husband reversed!!  I'm the one that can't give a simple answer and my husband is always like, "Milk.  Yes or No." lol  I made him read this and we were cracking up.

    My husband leaves his glasses all over the counter instead of putting them in the sink.  And he constantly sniffles and clears his throat, but that's because he has awful sinus issues. 

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  • imageSparkyFuentes:

    Makes a sandwich right on the bare countertop with no plate or cutting board underneath.  He leaves a spackling of crumbs all over the kitchen. 

    This exactly!!!

     

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  • He flips the damn tv right when I am getting into a show or when I want to see something. Plus he will land on something really stupid (mostly the Spanish channel) and just leave it there!

    He (and my FIL) also have the annoying habit of leaving the cabinets open after either getting a plate out or putting them away. Seriously...did you forget how you got the plates in there? GAH!

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  • imageleslies75:
    imageSparkyFuentes:

    Makes a sandwich right on the bare countertop with no plate or cutting board underneath.  He leaves a spackling of crumbs all over the kitchen. 

    This exactly!!!

     

    me too!!  It is so annoying.  

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  • He leaves his deodorant out on the sink counter. Then as soon as its empty finally puts it in the medicine cabinet. I went to clean the cabinet out the other day and there were 3 empty things of deodorant in there. With his new full on the counter.

    He also never puts his dishes in the dishwasher. The dishwasher is directly under our sink. Lean down 6 freaking inches and put your dishes in the dishwasher.

    Last one...(TMI warning) occasionally he will forget to flush the toilet! He will do his business clothes the lid on the toilet and get a shower without flushing (WTF??). Its particularly bad when he leaves for work after me and the bathroom has been closed up for 10+ hrs!!

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  • He thinks his farts are HILARIOUS.
  • Procrastinates! I've been waiting for my kitchen floor to be finished since MARCH! It is only partly done. It is so frustrating.
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  • My husband does 80% of things already posted by other ladies.  And they all annoy me to some degree.  Tongue Tied
     
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  • he's addicted to milk, and not only does he not put the many glasses each day into the dishwasher, but he doesn't even rinse them when he puts them in the sink.  oh and he lays them down so the milk ring that gets encrusted is along the entire length of the glass.

    he refuses to eat most left overs.

    he puts empty soda cans in the sink drain.  not just in the sink, but in the drain.  and leaves it there.

    he empties the ice cube trays but leaves them empty on the counter because they need to "defrost and dry" before he refills them. b/s!!

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  • imageChels0504:
    He thinks his farts are HILARIOUS.
    HA, THIS.  My DH has the worst smelling farts and I have to often leave the room after being woken up out of a sound sleep, I wish I was joking.  Also, when he wakes up he is all hyper and wants to "mess" with me, like playing/singing, and other annoying sh!t.  I'm sorry, I've only been asleep for 5 hours, I'd like to sleep, go bug someone else!
  • - always seems to shave right after I have cleaned the counters in our bathroom..drives me crazy!

    - leaves lights on..argh!

    - he usually wakes up before me and just bums around until I get up, and once I am, he starts asking me what's for breakfast. I get so mad! hello, have you not been awake this whole time?! fix your own damn breakfast!!!!!

    TTC since April 2008

    Me: PCOS/Amenorrhea DH: Azoospermia due to Y Chromosome Micro Deletion IVF w/ ICSI on hold until further notice

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  • He can't hug, kiss, touch me with out wanting to have sex.  When I walk in the door from work and give you a kiss the last thing on my mind is sexy time.  I just don't get it and it drive me crazy.
  • He uses alot of q-tips and leaves them all around the house - Ughhhh
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  • If we're sitting in the living room watching TV and I get up, he always asks, "Where are you going?"  Like maybe if it sounds fun to him, he'll join me.  I'm going to do laundry.  Did you really need to know.  Or he'll ask really obvious questions.  I'll be holding a laundry basket full of clothes and he'll ask me, "what are you doing?" It annoys me even typing this!
  • snores...every night...all night.  and, i'm a light sleeper, so it drives me absolutely nuts!!!
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