Infertility

need help please talk me down ladies

RE appt tomorrow to get SA results and plan = panic attack at Costco today.

i've been ok.  but the fact that we go tomorrow is freaking me out. i'm so afraid that its going to be like last time DH had his SA and nurse told me everything was good but when we went it so was not good at all.  so when she gave me # i wrote them all down and i'm bringing them with me and the name of the nurse that told me.  so that if she was wrong again i could find her and strangle her.

also i'm expecting RE to give us a plan of attack at tomorrows appt. and if his plan is for IUI we could be starting meds as early as next week because AF is due on Friday.

help me please.

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Re: need help please talk me down ladies

  • I'm no help as I'm a constant anxiety mess over IF but Good luck tomorrow!!

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  • Deep breathes. That will help a bunch. Sadly there isn't anything you can do about the SA. Keep that in mind. Good luck
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • It's going to be ok.  No matter what news you get tomorrow it WILL be ok.  Getting a plan of attack is very helpful and can give you something to focus on that will get you through this IF struggle.  Good luck tomorrow. (And maybe the news will be good!)
    Ectopic pregnancy Aug. 2008, followed by a diagnosis of two blocked tubes.
    IVF#1 gave us a BFP on 8/24/09, DD born May 2010
    Surprise, natural BFP July 2012 ended in miscarriage 9/4/12 at 10w4d
    FET#1 January 2013
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  • i'm just freaking out because if we have bad MFI then there is nothing we can do for awhile if we have to go straight to IVF.  the money is just not there right now.  my husband only just got part time job, he's been unemployed for almost 2 years now.

    plus i'm freaking out that next month is the 1 yr mark of my 14 month old nephew dying unexpectedly.  sept 29 2008 will forever be a bad day in my families life.

    i need happy news.  so i'm praying tomorrow the results will be what nurse said and we can go to IUI with injectables.

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  • plenty of girls get pg with MFI. you will hopefully be one of them.

    i am sorry about your nephew

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  • Hang in there Smile.  You don't have any bad news and it is just as likely good news as bad, so think about how it could be good news.  I am sending you positive thoughts!  It will go good, it will go good.....
    TTC since 8/2004
    Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
    DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
    DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
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