For me it was harder to go from 0 to 1. It was very much a lifestyle change for me. With #2 I felt much more at ease & juggling two hasn't been bad at all.
It was hard to go from 0 to a 7 year old step child. Then just when we thought we were getting it - from a 13 year old step child to infant TWINS. Talk about total ends of the spectrum.
Re: is it harder to go from
My twins are 5! My baby is 3!
DS#2 - Allergic to Cashew, Pistachio, Kiwi
DS#3 - Allergic to Milk, Egg, Peanut, Tree Nuts and Sesame
Definitely 0-1
Adding another just adds another layer of chaos at times, but you are already in 'mommy mode' so it's somewhat easier.
It was hard to go from 0 to a 7 year old step child. Then just when we thought we were getting it - from a 13 year old step child to infant TWINS. Talk about total ends of the spectrum.