So...bfp still

Ready4life

Woke up this morning. Still pregnant. I guess it wasn't a dream afterall. Actually I didn't get much sleep anyway, and talk about feeling sick. I have so many nerves going in my stomach that I am almost forcing myself to be sick. Why can't I be happy about this? I feel horrible for that too. Obviously this wasn't planned but stuff happens. And it must have been lucky because I swear DH and I maybe have sex one a month, if we are lucky, never on my ovulating days, he always pulls out AND i had LEEP the day after my ovulating day. 

adamwife

You're just in shock.  You need the news to settle a bit.

mrse1107

First of all, congratulations.

Second of all, my 2nd pg was also not intended so I can say I went through the same mix of feelings and emotions at first as well. 

Please feel free to PM me, or e-mail me mrse1107@gmail.com

if you want to talk to someone...

Impatientgal

You're in shock. Don't worry- these feelings will probably dissipate. Once you make the appointment with the ob to determine how far along you are, you will probably feel better. Hang in there.

And, congrats?

his4evr04

You need time to let it sink in. You and your family will be alright. Try not to beat yourself for how you feel, I think its natural. Give yourself time.

Congratulations, too!

KatieRL1979

I had a LEEP and a cone biopsy about two years before I got pregnant.  My OB said I had essentially a 50/50 shot at having a complication from it, he's had patients need a stitch and others carry just fine.  I was fine, my cervix held up like a steel trap and I never had a problem.  Hopefully yours will have had enough time to heal before there's any real weight on it.

So it that is worrying you try not to let it bug you until you have a real reason to be concerned.

In the meantime try to think of it this way - the new baby wanted to be here so badly it's defying the odds  

betsnup

Oh sweetie, I was there where you are just a few weeks ago.  It does take some time to sink in, but you'll eventually get used to it.  I know how many emotions you are going through, though.  Good luck and stay strong.

holly423

As pp's said, you just need some time. The feelings are normal with an unplanned pregnancy.

Congratulations!

gobigblue

Ready, i totally know where you're coming from.  i found out i was pg when DD was 9 mos.  babies will only be 17 mos apart.  it wasn't planned and i can't say i was all that excited to see the + HPT.  shocked, scared, nervous, bummed, etc.  i promise you though that w/ time, this news will become more and more welcoming.  i've had 3 mos to digest the news and am now excited to meet #2!  hang in there and congrats!!!

madhatter2003

Been there and felt the same way......it's normal to be shocked, worried, stressed, etc at first.

PM me if you want to talk.  You WILL get excited and love #2 just as much, it'll just take a few days to sink in.

Mariposa24

I'm with you.  I was shocked and nervous at first.  It settles down though and I've started to embrace it, especially as I'm not starting to show.  I'm here if you want to chat!  We'll all get thru this!