Adoption

Foster to adoption

Everyone seems to say that they are approved for specific ages and a certain amount of kids. How does that work- do you pick or does the agency?
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Re: Foster to adoption

  • A little bit of both. Your home may only be capable of handling a certain number of kids, and you can tell them you'll accept kids ages X-Y.
  • we picked the age range out of broad groupings (0-5, 5-10, 10+), but we were also able to specify a preference for a narrower age range.  For example, we will be licensed for 0-5, but the state knows our preference is for 6weeks-3 years.

    As for number of children, our homestudy social worker came up with the number of children our home/family could safely support but we have the final say on the number of placements we'll accept under that number.  So,  our home will be licensed for 3 children (possibly 4 once more experienced) but we know that at this point the most we'd want to take on is 2.

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  • We are currently going through the process of being licensed. We get to pick the specific things that we want. This includes but not limited to ages, gender, # of children, sibling group/not sibling group, disability, behaviors, etc.

    When we had originally signed up with our County CD they told us we couldn't do what we wanted. We're now with a private agency, and so far, they encourage us to accept what we're comfortable with.
  • we started at 0-18 months, with 1 child. then we bumped it up to 0-3 for 2 children. we only bumped it up to 0-10 and 3 children so we could get our current girls. (bumped up = amended our home study and license, which can be done very quickly.)

    I think most will let you be licensed for 2 starting new, but it's completely up to what you think you can handle. (says the person who is crazy with 4 children, 3 basic level and 1 moderate, all 4 drug exposed children)

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