Bradley class?

Radler

I'm intrigued by the Bradley method, and I have a couple of options to take a class here, but I need to sign up this week if I'm going to do it. I'm wondering how valuable the class was to you?

I'm in an unusual situation in that my husband is not here to be my partner in class. He is on a military deployment and may or may not make it home for the birth. (He's definitely willing to read the book in case he makes it home.) There's a free class on the base that actually sounds pretty good, but it's not Bradley, just a general childbirth class. On base, of course, there are a lot of women in those classes without partners and I won't feel quite so out of place. I have already decided if my DH isn't home for the birth, I'll do the delivery with just doctors/nurses in the room, though my mom will be around for the labor part and then leave for the pushing. (Neither one of us wants her there for the delivery--ha.)

WWYD? Do you think the military class plus reading the Bradley method book would be a good enough option? Or does the class itself add a lot?

MarksGrrl

I know Kittylove took a Bradley class, if she doesn't see this thread and chime in you might try paging her.

Thanks to both you and your DH for the sacrifices you BOTH are making!

kittylove

Bradley is very much husband/wife or at least partner orientated. For at least a few classes you will need who ever is going to be your labor coach with you. Also Bradley emphasizes natural childbirth, sometimes that isn't a good fit. I personaly LOVED the bradley classes but I do think i would have felt odd going to them by myself. DH did miss the nutrition class because of work but that is diffrent than your hubby never meeting the other sturdents or instructor.

I had a nice long talk with my instructor before I ever took the class. If you feel up to it call the instructor of the bradley class and see what they say about your situation. I personally think taking your mom (who will be there till you push) is a GREAT idea.

CarlyL

I have not taken it yet, but I start mine next month and I'm so excited about it!  I agree with the suggestion about talking to the instructor and explaining your situation and see what they have to say.

Radler

Thanks, everyone! I have the phone number of one of the instructors and will definitely get her thoughts, too. My mom's out of town so that's not an option either. I'm considering a doula.

I mostly just hope DH gets home, but if he does, it's going to be right before the birth so he won't be here for the prep work.

Thanks again...