It was nice while it lasted......

badonk · August 2009

experiencing the feeling of being pregnant and being able to join this board of wonderful women that is.

Unfortunately, the u/s did not go well at all. Basically, the sac formed but no baby developed. I am going to call the doc on Monday and get the D&C scheduled for one day next week because we do not want to prolong this any longer than possible. DH and I are very very sad about this, but it is not going to stop us from trying to achieve our goal of being parents. However, with the weeks other bad news of me losing my job, I do not how long it will be before we can start another cycle since we are completely 100% oop. For the time being I am going to be re-joining the TTTC board, but hopefully I will be back her soon. Thank you all for all of your love and support and I wish you all the best.

Lori

pamela-matt · August 2009

I am sorry. (((HUGS)))

You and your DH will be in my thoughts

LSUBride3 · August 2009

So sorry Lori You sound like you have such a positive attitude...keep it up-that will help you get through!

((BIG, BIG Hugs))

oct11bride03 · August 2009

I am so incredibly sorry. ((HUGS)) I hope to see you back here soon. Take care of yourself.

DavezWife · August 2009

Oh I am soooo sorry. This just sucks balls.

I'm sure money is not your focus right now, but the cost of my D&C was a HUGE shock to me. (you mentioned you were OOP, I presume you mean IF, but just wanted to mention that.) Any questions, ask your billing office or you can get details from me, but it was a huge blow to a gal already down, for me.

Again, just chitty. So sorry.

here4u · August 2009

I am so sorry for everything you have been through these past few weeks.

You WILL join us again soon!

preheatedoven · August 2009

I am so sorry:( ((HUGS)) to you and your DH.

badonk · August 2009

DavezWife:

Oh I am soooo sorry. This just sucks balls.

I'm sure money is not your focus right now, but the cost of my D&C was a HUGE shock to me. (you mentioned you were OOP, I presume you mean IF, but just wanted to mention that.) Any questions, ask your billing office or you can get details from me, but it was a huge blow to a gal already down, for me.

Again, just chitty. So sorry.

We are 100% oop for IF stuff up until the time I get pg, but the D&C will be covered 100%.

Mrs.Babbsy · August 2009

My heart just sank. I am so sorry Lori!

I am here for you! I am so sorry!

DavezWife · August 2009

oh good. Mine was $15K. We ended up paying $3K ourselves, b/c insurance changed out it paid out the day before. I'm that unlucky. ;-(

Sorry again, hon. The gals on the m/c board were nice to kick and scream and bich to. I kinda excused myself from there after a while, I'm kinda a half-glass full kinda gal, but they were very sweet and supportive when I needed that.