Pregnant after 35

Scared..First Internal today!

Not sure why but I am so scared its going to hurt! Tell me I am being a baby.

Re: Scared..First Internal today!

  • I've had 3 internals so far and the first two were a breeze. But the doctors just used their fingers and felt around, slightly pressing down on my belly.

    The only internal that hurt me was this past Monday, since I mentioned to the doctor that I had a watery discharge. To make sure it wasn't amniotic fluid, she used a speculum. THAT hurt. And I bled after and spotted all day yesterday.  But a regular internal didn't hurt.

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  • It's not that bad and its quick so just take a deep breath and it will be over fast.  I had a lot of PT contractions with DD and had several checks for that--I would describe it as a the dr giving you a quick jab to the cervix.
  • It won't be anything you can't handle, I'm sure....the midwife did an internal on me this week when I went in for bleeding.  When she just used her fingers, it didn't hurt.  When she used the speculum, it was uncomfortable I'll admit that - but not anything I would be scared of if I had to do it again.  You'll be fine!!
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  • I had 2 with different doctors. The first one was a breeze but the second one hurt a little and I had spotting afterwards. I think that second doctor (a male, first one was female) was too rough. Not going to that one again.
    Me: 44 DH: 42. DS born healthy at 40 weeks 8/24/09. TTC since then with no luck or ART. Surprise BFP 8/6/14... MMC @ 8 weeks 4 days... Miss you everyday sweet baby angel.
  • They're really not that bad. They're not comfortable, but not terrible either.
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