Prayers please~

Morla

one of my close friend who was 11weeks pregnant just found out there isn't a heart beat....

she is devestated... and blaming herself... she didn't do anything wrong but I guess she can't help but to think that she did something wrong...

I don't know what to do... I just want to go over there and hold her but I know she doesn't want anyone near by... she has lots of family members near her but she is locking herself in and not letting anyone near....

please pray for her that she won't blame herself and she will be back to her happy self all over again real soon... 

Thank you!

MissLinz

I am so sorry to hear this:(

littlecorazon

My heart hurts and just fell to the floor. Your poor friend must be in such agony.

Having gone through miscarriages, I can tell you that there is nothing you can say or do that will make her feel better.  Offer her hugs and let her know you are there if she needs anything. But just know that if she stays away, it may be because she does not want to see you and your baby and be reminded of what she has lost. She may even feel like a disappointment to her family and may feel shame that her body is not perfect or that they think she did something wrong. Just be patient and let her heal her way. Do no take anything personal. Every bone in her body hurts and her heart cannot understand why this has happened to her. She is angry at the unfairness and uncertainty.  Don't push her, she will be happy again and realize that she created a beautiful innocent angel that is not meant for this world. 

My prayers go out to her and her baby.

I'm barely getting comfortable talking about my miscarriages (2005 & 2007). Trust me, I had not even let my mother whom I'm very close with in on how much it hurts. But now that my baby is here, I at least know my body is not defective and that miscarriage are God's will and nothing there is nothing I could do to prevent them. We are all just overjoyed and feel extremely lucky to have our lil sugar monkey!

Morla

thank you so much for sharing and the advice.... she seems to be getting little better.... Thank you!