I am not Catholic, but many Christians baptize. I would give check to Parish. If he accepts cash, himself, totally unethical. And, he probably knows he should not accept. If you want to give him a gift, maybe make him cookies or something.
We gave a check as an extra offering directly to our Parish and also a card with a smaller check to our Priest. I do not think the Priest expects to be compensated, but it is a nice gesture. We received a lovely note thanking us afterwards, so we know it was appreciated.
Re: Catholics - Baptism Question - gift to Priest
To the parish.
If you want to give the priest a gift, maybe some muffins or brownies or something.
Sarah - 12/23/2008
Alex - 9/30/2011
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